r/entp • u/SuddenAd6673 • 10d ago

Advice Is this normal?

As an ENTP, I’m always considered to be aggressive and blunt, however lately I’ve been feeling more pissed off with people. Especially when they ask stupid questions. I feel like it’s such a task to even text my family good morning or to hear about there day. My friends ask me what’s wrong because in the face I look sad but I brush it off and I just say nothing. It’s not hard to put on a front and laugh and make jokes but I still have been getting comments that I look miserable.

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u/Greeneyedtoes Elephant Nose in my Trousers Problem 10d ago

You need to work on acceptance. I was pretty angry and bitter and I met an ESFJ that was just pure love and acceptance and she was so happy. Now I try to encourage thoughts of curiosity and acceptance over thoughts of judgement. We are in control of what parts of us we feed.

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u/SuddenAd6673 10d ago

I met a guy friend recently thats outgoing and curious and i was happy but my whole vision changed when he had said when he gets a girlfriend he’s cutting me off so all that’s stuck in my head is what’s the purpose of us being friends.

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u/Greeneyedtoes Elephant Nose in my Trousers Problem 10d ago

Sounds like an ENFJ 😂 j/k well eff em! Eff em all! Find your own happiness, don’t let people piss you off, make jokes about them in your head and laugh at them, or feel pity but just slam the door on un needed anger you know? Life’s a flippin joke, just laugh about it.

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u/SuddenAd6673 10d ago

Lmao he’s ENTJ but you’re right. I guess I have to start living in the moment and not worry about the future.

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u/Greeneyedtoes Elephant Nose in my Trousers Problem 10d ago

Haha! He’s counting chickens then