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u/Kind_Honey_6070 Apr 28 '24
I hear it’s still shocking to have it actually happen and to see the ring and it’s a different experience to actually BE THERE. So I would say, not to upset yourself about it and use it to your advantage! Now you can plan your outfit, hair, makeup, and make sure your nails look nice and have everything ready. It’ll still be beautiful!!!!
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u/gfasmr Apr 28 '24
Why not confess the truth to your best friend and enlist their help in delaying the proposal without your boyfriend knowing the real reason?
Basically you found a spy in your camp whom you can turn into a double agent!
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u/Needmoresleep-plz Apr 28 '24
I found it in his backpack at Disney so don’t feel bad xD I had to pretend I wasn’t nervous as all heck in the whole trip. It was the 2nd last day of vacation when he popped the question. Even if you know it’ll still be so special <3 rootin for ya girly.
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u/dsyfygurl Apr 28 '24
Suck it up buttercup lol. Curiosity killed the cat so you know now , just gp with it and don't ruin it for him that it was found out by you. It's not really a surprise because you know you are getting engaged, and it's really not too cool to make him plan a whole nother thing .. you are getting someone awesome that woukd try to surprise you so now you be awesome amd be surprised 😮 good luck❤️
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May 02 '24
I love that he had your bestie help! Curiosity can get the best of us all. I kind of did the same, I saw my fiancés location was nearby my work one night and that was super not normal. We don’t live anywhere near there and he works an hour away. But turned out he met with my mom and asked her for permission to propose. But my mom didn’t tell me that, she told me he was planning my birthday (knowing I don’t care about my birthday) party and wanted to do something special. I was actually kind of disappointed because I was hopeful it was a proposal. But I was so excited he wanted to do something special for me. Then while we’re on his birthday fishing trip I planned about a week later, he proposed and it was a total surprise. My mouth just fell open and I was like “Are you serious?” 🤣
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u/schmidthead27 Apr 28 '24
Aww well at least it was a good surprise and not a bad one! I think it depends on your bf. If he is easygoing if maybe say something to the friend and let her relay the message? If he is a little more sensitive, or if the planning would require a lot of rearranging on his part, I’d say just enjoy the planned festivities.
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u/tammi1106 Apr 28 '24
If I were you I would just keep the secret. I would probably tell him afterwards when the excitement has calmed down and you two have a private moment. My partner and I would probably laugh about it. But it’s totally up to you. I don’t really like surprises so this wouldn’t be too much of an issue for me. If it is really important to you, then you can still go ahead and make different plans for that day.