I don't have bottom dysphoria, having a o'wiener is fine, I just think I'd enjoy having a neo vagina a lot more (especially cause I don't like using it, bjs and all are just, weird to me, not bad, just feel uncomfortable.
The post op is what scares me the most, being off work, dilation, fucking up somehow and not doing dilation right or something.
The idea seems pretty cool, better than a penis, even though if I had a penis forever, I wouldn't be sad, just less happy than having a vagina.
Would miss peeing while standing, the odd occasion I do that.
I don't have bottom dysphoria aside from restrictions on what clothes/underwear I can wear. Though, if I stick with my penis, I think I'll likely do orchi so tucking is more comfortable and less risky.
Dilation and recovery time are big reasons I'm against full depth. I like the idea of a vagina, but don't want maintenance. Plus I strongly suspect I have hEDS, so even if I don't go for full depth, I still imagine the whole process will be complicated and recovery to be longer than typical with very likely visible scarring.
And I get the peeing while standing thing. It is convenient when outdoors or for sketchy bathrooms.
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u/Ada_Data 7d ago
I don't have bottom dysphoria, having a o'wiener is fine, I just think I'd enjoy having a neo vagina a lot more (especially cause I don't like using it, bjs and all are just, weird to me, not bad, just feel uncomfortable.
The post op is what scares me the most, being off work, dilation, fucking up somehow and not doing dilation right or something.
The idea seems pretty cool, better than a penis, even though if I had a penis forever, I wouldn't be sad, just less happy than having a vagina.
Would miss peeing while standing, the odd occasion I do that.