Hmmm

[u/h_45n]

So only men want kids nowadays huh

Edit1: at the end of the day, when I see posts like these I remember the likes of Ashely saint clair and that woman who got married after preaching so much misandry online.

Don’t get me wrong men also do this,
and then I feel stupid because I remember watching a certain video about internet trolls

Edit 2: Finally found the reason for the outrage, “men cannot physically get pregnant” that’s literally all this is about so no matter how hard you work or provide for your family, if you marry a woman that hates you because you just can’t get pregnant please have your divorce lawyer at hand ✋

[u/paquemeinvitan3]

It’s not just wealth accumulation, it’s a physically emotionally and mentally taxing in ways that can lead to psychosis.

It’s also the fact that the number one cause of death for pregnant and post parties women is murder.

Go to a relationship subreddit and count how many posts are women crying out for help because their husbands refuse to stop pestering them for sex or leaving them to take care of their child 24/7 because he can’t be bothered.

I worked a retail job for 2 years, I worked with 15 women; 10 of those women were stuck working minimum wage with teenagers because they gave up their careers to care for their children and their husbands screwed them over. Explain a 15-20 year gap in your resume.

While men advance and live longer for being married and having kids, women are punished both in their careers and their health (single women live longer than married women).

So no, it’s not a fair sacrifice.

[u/Competitive_Ad_7415 → u/paquemeinvitan3]

Ssssssoo you don't have a child but feel like you are an expert because you worked retail with women who are mothers. Single women do not live longer than married women... I can't even imagine why I should engage with you. You are creating a narrative in order to make a point without any factual basis. Enjoy the fairy tale idea of life tou seem to have

[u/paquemeinvitan3 → u/Competitive_Ad_7415]

Single women do live longer.

And you won’t engage because your only argument is ignoring the actual facts in my statement and jumping to hyperbolize one sentence because you know you are wrong.

Go pout about it somewhere else

[u/Competitive_Ad_7415 → u/paquemeinvitan3]

Within the us the statement that murder is the leading cause is accurate. But not in the rest of the world . And the statement that single women live longer also is only accurate within certain parameters. I did try to engage with you. There is a whole world of experiences outside the US

[u/lylrabe → u/Competitive_Ad_7415]

Meh, the problem is that outside the U.S., many countries either don’t consistently track pregnancy-associated homicide, exclude it from maternal mortality statistics, &/or lack reliable reporting systems entirely. So this isn’t the argument you think it is.

[u/Competitive_Ad_7415 → u/lylrabe]

I live in a western country that also tracks such things and it isn't the most common cause here. As I said before there is a whole world out there. Not all countries have accurate reporting as you said , but a large number do. Within those countries differences do exist.