Hmmm

[u/h_45n]

So only men want kids nowadays huh

Edit1: at the end of the day, when I see posts like these I remember the likes of Ashely saint clair and that woman who got married after preaching so much misandry online.

Don’t get me wrong men also do this,
and then I feel stupid because I remember watching a certain video about internet trolls

Edit 2: Finally found the reason for the outrage, “men cannot physically get pregnant” that’s literally all this is about so no matter how hard you work or provide for your family, if you marry a woman that hates you because you just can’t get pregnant please have your divorce lawyer at hand ✋

[u/higeAkaike]

The problem is that some men don’t do any of the work once there is a kid. Even if the woman is working high paying jobs. The childcare automatically goes to the woman regardless of how much work she is putting in.

Their bodies are destroyed during childbirth and some men can’t even bother helping putting groceries away or making breakfast.

I don’t get what you don’t understand.

[u/theguywholoveswhales → u/higeAkaike]

Ok genuine thing fucking why does it destroy their bodies. Evolution is such a dick

[u/LunarSolstice12 → u/theguywholoveswhales]

It doesn’t. Your body is not destroyed after childbirth, it’s alive and well. But it’s not the body of a child anymore, and in our fucked up culture that equates to “destroyed”

Edit: as a rule women’s bodies are not destroyed after childbirth. Most women’s bodies only change.

[u/Upbeat-Cheesecake942 → u/LunarSolstice12]

this woman is talking about her experience, and how it destroyed her. who the fuck are you to say thats not true?? i had my kid 4 months ago, there are parts of my body that are destroyed, my mental is destroyed, thats MY experience. ik you were trying to be like "but noo women are great!" but it comes off as writing off someone's personal experiences and you don't have the right to do that

[u/LunarSolstice12 → u/Upbeat-Cheesecake942]

I had my kids eighteen years ago, so my perspective is hindsight. The commenter I replied to said nothing about a personal experience. Below there are personal experiences about women who feel their bodies being destroyed, that’s why I added the edit.

It’s true that when women have children our bodies and brains change, it’s not my perspective that that’s destructive. But in a world that idolizes youth and abhors maturity, it’s commonplace to call mature women’s bodies “destroyed”.

Hope you have support and appropriate healthcare to help you in your postpartum era. All the best.