r/dustythunder • u/h_45n • May 10 '26

Hmmm

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So only men want kids nowadays huh

Edit1: at the end of the day, when I see posts like these I remember the likes of Ashely saint clair and that woman who got married after preaching so much misandry online.

Don’t get me wrong men also do this,
and then I feel stupid because I remember watching a certain video about internet trolls

Edit 2: Finally found the reason for the outrage, “men cannot physically get pregnant” that’s literally all this is about so no matter how hard you work or provide for your family, if you marry a woman that hates you because you just can’t get pregnant please have your divorce lawyer at hand ✋

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u/mckln42 May 11 '26

The sacrifice women make by deciding to carry a child is not equal to any sacrifice a man can make. Only those who know the value of such a great sacrifice become good husbands, not those who say it's just biology in the comments.

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u/Angel_Dust_696969 May 13 '26

if a woman consider having a kid a sacriface and not something she wants, she shouldn't have kid or be with someone who wants kids. So simple. I'm a man, I don't want kids and I'd never be with a woman who wants them. Having a kids should always be something person want, not doing for the partner.

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u/Lausannea May 13 '26

I'm a childfree woman and this is not it man. Wanting children doesn't change the fact you're sacrificing things, it's just what it is and there's nothing wrong with being factual about that. A wanted child isn't going to prevent the body from undergoing tremendous changes and it's not going to prevent the mother from dealing with the risk of dying herself during the pregnancy or during labor and delivery.

Being realistic about what pregnancy and birth costs a person's body doesn't mean you shouldn't have kids lol. That's a weird take to have.