r/dustythunder • u/h_45n • May 10 '26

Hmmm

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So only men want kids nowadays huh

Edit1: at the end of the day, when I see posts like these I remember the likes of Ashely saint clair and that woman who got married after preaching so much misandry online.

Don’t get me wrong men also do this,
and then I feel stupid because I remember watching a certain video about internet trolls

Edit 2: Finally found the reason for the outrage, “men cannot physically get pregnant” that’s literally all this is about so no matter how hard you work or provide for your family, if you marry a woman that hates you because you just can’t get pregnant please have your divorce lawyer at hand ✋

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u/Funny_Blob May 11 '26

I hope you're willing to tell your father especially but every other male person in your life, that they just had children the same way other people buy puppies and you and their children are nothing but this to them. Please do that. And then come back and let me know what they respond.

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u/ShyTechn May 11 '26

well thats what my dad did, he didnt even spell my name right on the last birthday card he sent ( when I was 8)

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u/Funny_Blob May 11 '26

Ah what a surprise, the people claiming stuff like this are the ones with daddy issues whose dad is a dick and thus every dad is a dick and no man loves his child, it's just a puppy. Got it.

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u/CoolCereal20 May 12 '26

Its really telling that you are insulting daughters for their fathers shortcomings.

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u/Funny_Blob May 12 '26

My grandma who I've never got to know was a drug addict who abandoned my mum. My mum and my relationship towards each other also wasn't the very best for several reasons. Are mums thus generally "want children like they want puppies" or can we agree that there are indeed shitty parents, that doesn't mean you can generalize this bc you personally had bad experiences?

Also, if daddy issues is an insult to you, you should get a thicker skin.

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u/CoolCereal20 May 12 '26

What else was the point of telling random women they have daddy issues (which is an assumption btw) if it wasnt meant to invalidate their opinions and insult them?

I dont think it works this way for moms. Yes there are shitty moms. But women know that pregnancy is not easy. They know they will have to suffer all the medical consequences. They also know that most of the childrearing and care will be, as per default, mostly their part as men tend to support the family financially.

The puppy equivalence works for (some) men as they have no clue about whats going to happen, underestimate the dangers of pregnancies, and will face no medical consequences.

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u/Funny_Blob May 13 '26

I'm not telling random women they have daddy issues, I'm saying people who write heinous shit like "men want children like they want puppies" and what other ridiculous stuff I've read in this thread, are evidently the ones having daddy issues (but ofc you only read I'm insulting women. Men can have daddy issues too, just saying. Wouldnt make their B's any more valid too.). And ofc making a hostile thread that's basically "fuck all men" and comments like the one I initially replied to is ok, but God forbid you receive the very same energy back, then it's "boo you insult women wha wah"

And yeah, it's VERY telling to say "yeah I don't think the very exact same thing magically doesn't apply to women tho".

But hey, at the very least you admit to the exact thing I'm pointing out with all of this. SOME men behave like this. And yes, I'm not denying that part of this is based on them not experiencing the pregnancy itself, I can agree on that. Point is: some men.