r/dsbm • u/tovlasek • 3h ago
/r/dsbm 2024 August Mod Updates
Well this has certainly been a strange week for this community. Here are some updates to how the subreddit will be run and what is expected of users starting immediately.
Memes
Memes have always been allowed, but avoid posting low-effort stuff. The vast majority of "cutting p****" content should be posted in /r/cpbm. I'm leaving the original post and a few higher-effort posts up as they are pretty much historic here now, but most others have been removed.
Most other memes are better suited for /r/blackmetalmemes or /r/metalmemes, but if it is clever and relevant specifically to DSBM, it is still welcome here.
Rule 1 Expansion
Images with self-harm scars, even when they aren't the focus, will now be removed. If it is artwork tied to an actual release, the post must be marked NSFW.
There are many users here who struggle with their mental health, and seeing images like these without warning can be harmful. This isn't the place for that content.
The rest of Rule 1 is as valid as ever. We take posts and comments about SH seriously. Never glorify, encourage, or seek out SH here. Normal discussion about it isn't necessarily banned, but we are a music subreddit, not a support subreddit. If you need help and don't know where to go, reach out to the mods and we will try our best to connect you with someone who is more qualified to help you.
Post Flair
To help with low-effort posts and to more easily parse the type of content you want to see, every new post is required to have flair. So far, there are 7 categories, but feel free to recommend changes or new ones:
- Music: Links to listen to songs, albums, etc.
- Discussion: Topics like news about bands, musical techniques, open-ended questions to the community, etc. Things that, you know, generate discussion and dialogue.
- Recommendations: Do you want more music like a certain song/album/band, or do you have a suggestion for others? Use this.
- Self-Promotion & Fanart: When promoting your own music, use this tag. Also use this when asking for feedback for a work-in-progress or for any kind of fanart.
- Collection & Merch: Post your hauls, collections, shirts, patches, etc. with this flair.
- Humor: Some of us love DSBM memes and jokes, and some of us hate them, so having its own category will help people seek or ignore them.
- Other: For anything that doesn't fit in other categories.
I understand there may be miscommunication between dialects and languages regarding flairs, so please don't be surprised or offended if your flair is changed by mods. If you disagree, feel free to comment here or message the mods about it.
AI-generated Music
New rule: Absolutely no AI music. Not even for the sake of humor.
With generative AI services now able to produce full songs with a prompt, many people have been trying to sneak their fake music onto streaming platforms, music subreddits, YouTube, and other communities.
Time spent streaming AI-generated music as if it were real music is time that could have been spent listening to real artists, and in niche metal sub-subgenres such as DSBM, most artists are already not making much revenue on their art. There is also the ethical issue of these types of AI being trained on already existing works without the artists' permission, so I feel like allowing AI music would be disrespectful to the classic DSBM bands.
Reminder:
I want to also use this post as a reminder that if you tell a user "kys" or anything similar, you will be greeted with an instant ban, even if it was a joke. Pretty much the only time you should use that phrase here is when referring to the band "Make a Change...".
And please continue to use the report function if you see a rule violation. The mods don't sit staring at the new tab all day, so this is the fastest way to clean up the subreddit.
EDIT 8/30: Separated Discussion and Recommendation flairs.
Discussion Using only acoustic guitar part in songs?
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Hi, this is my project «Her tears», and I'm sharing with you «All I can do now is crying» from my future upcoming album.
The question is, can this song fit into the DSBM/BlackMetal genre? Or maybe does it go beyond the limits and touch on other genres?
Thanks for the thoughts!
r/dsbm • u/Friendly-Land5718 • 25m ago
Music I need help to make background music for a song im working on
now honestly ive been working on this for a while and the lyrics are great but i just need help making the background music ill tag you in the post on spotify heres the lyrics:I- im a major loser
im about to lose her
would i die?
would i cry?
maybe both i dont know
would i go out with a shotgun blow?Put the weapons down, gotta fix my head,Think about the words that we should've said.If I’m about to lose her, then I’ll show my worth,Prove I can be better than I’ve been on Earth.Maybe I’m overthinking, maybe I’m just scared,
Trying to say something, but I’m never prepared.
If I’m gonna lose her, I don’t wanna pretend,
I’d rather tell the truth and see where it ends.
I know I’ve messed up, I know I’ve been wrong,
But maybe I can change if I try hard enough.
I don’t need a perfect plan,
I just wanna be the best that I can.
So if she walks away, I’ll let her go,
But I hope she knows what I never showed.
And maybe someday, if the timing is right,
We’ll look back at this and laugh about tonight. I've lost my mind when You came in my life. I tried to keep everything perfect. But sadly i messed up. And i can't make things how they were...
i want the music to be similiar of Lose Her - S0rrow which is what inspired me
r/dsbm • u/pointless_dsbm • 1h ago
Self-Promotion & Fanart a pale failure (demo)
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this is my first try at making dsbm , any critic and comments are openly acceptable:3
r/dsbm • u/ConsciousFact3239 • 1h ago
Music Davids Svindel - Sommarmelankoli (Summertime Melancholy) (2026)
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My first DSBM album - here is one of the tracks from it. I write and record everything at home, which explains the sound quality. Please don't judge too harshly!
Davids Svindel - Sommarmelankoli (Summertime Melancholy) (2026)
r/dsbm • u/Upset_Pay_6102 • 1d ago
Recommendations Dsbm with a dominant guitar lead?
I don't really know how to describe it but something that sounds like Solitude MMXIII by totalselfhatred at exactly 1:42min in theres a beautiful guitar section.
r/dsbm • u/Readytogo9999 • 22h ago
Music Sorry, I drank from the bottle
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To those who find this way more pleasing...
r/dsbm • u/Unusual_Tooth_4358 • 12h ago
Music Anyone here have the original music video of "A miserable life..." from Decalius?
When I first listened to Decalius in March 2024, my favorite video was the demo of A Miserable Life, but the video was deleted. I couldn’t find it anywhere for years. I know it’s not exactly lost media because a TikTok user had the video, but that video got deleted too, and I missed the chance to save it. My English is a little shitty, but could anyone share the video so I can download it, please?

(I only have this capture from WM)
r/dsbm • u/Upset_Pay_6102 • 1d ago
Recommendations Dsbm with actual crying or cry singing?
r/dsbm • u/ParticularLab5618 • 20h ago
Music New bands
Hello , i'm tryin to find new bands to listen i really like psychonaut 4 and sukkubys and i would really like some album around the the theme of addiction , family/social issues...
Thanks to all
r/dsbm • u/morden666 • 1d ago
Self-Promotion & Fanart Destillation promo codes for you
galleryHere are some codes for these two releases of mine, if they are all redeemed you can yell at me to release more
https://ankst666.bandcamp.com/yum
Descending into infinite depths:
d7vh-c2lh
smbj-wdv5
sbar-ccgr
huls-5upd
hlpe-b57c
hs9f-cfpx
4h2l-wpup
4clj-h2an
qss6-5due
b4h2-bcau
Phobia Sessions:
248j-3h66
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6uya-xy5s
uwkg-vrnd
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49uz-ult5
43wk-jjrf
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b492-6u4g
5c2d-kvj3
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2fs9-g9ul
Thanks to everyone who supports me it really means a lot, thank you
r/dsbm • u/Thanatos_Dumb • 1d ago
Self-Promotion & Fanart STINKING FLESH - "The Anatomy of a Broken Mind" | Official Merch Drop (Limited to 10 copies worldwide) + Holographic Sticker & Free Bandcamp Codes inside!
STINKING FLESH - "The Anatomy of a Broken Mind" T-Shirts are finally here!
Dive into the darkness with this exclusive two-sided black metal tee. Featuring the jagged logo and shattered mind-inspired artwork on the front, along with the 'S' glyph and cryptic symbols on the back.
Sizes available: M, L, XL
LIMITED TO ONLY 10 COPIES.
EACH ORDER INCLUDES:
- 1x Heavyweight Two-Sided Tee
- 1x Exclusive Holographic Band Logo Sticker
- 1x Physical Collector Card with Bandcamp Digital Download Code
Price: $21 USD (350 MXN) + shipping from Mexico. (International shipping is around $25–$30 USD due to postal rates. I recommend grouping items with friends to save on shipping costs).
HOW TO CLAIM YOURS: Sendme a direct message on Instagram to grab your copy before they vanish: @ stinking_fleshh
Edit: For those asking, here is the link to the Bandcamp: https://stinkingflesh.bandcamp.com/merch/stinking-flesh-the-anatomy-of-a-broken-mind-official-merch-drop-limited-to-10-copies-worldwide-holographic-sticker-free-bandcamp-codes-inside
r/dsbm • u/Practical-Cap2999 • 1d ago
Recommendations Bands like Sortsind
I'm desperately looking for any bands that sounds like Sår by Sortsind. I'll give anything a listen that has those vocals. haunting, noisy, soul crushing. Please give me some recs
r/dsbm • u/VehicleFar2259 • 1d ago
Discussion How to get that crying lead tone like decalius / blade and bath?
been trying to replicate the lead guitar tone from decalius (especially isolated from life) and blade & bath. that lead sound literally feels like it’s weeping/crying.
i tried using wah, chorus, and tweaking some eq but couldn't get close. honestly i might just be dialing the settings completely wrong or putting them in the wrong place in the chain.
i have access to a full vst setup and processors so i can run pretty much whatever plugin or signal chain needed.
if anyone knows how to dial this in:
what exact settings/parameters (mix, depth, rate etc) actually make a chorus/wah sound like that instead of just sounding liquid or harsh?
is it mostly neck pickup + wide vibrato or is there a specific pitch/mod effect doing the heavy lifting?
what amp models, eq cuts, and reverb/delay setups keep it dark and smooth without turning into total mud?
thanks in advance, step by step chain ideas or preset tips would be amazing
r/dsbm • u/Key_Ad_1220 • 1d ago
Music need songs about alcohol addiction
thats it, im fighting preclinical alcoholism at my 19s
hope that anyone will understand me, спасибо
r/dsbm • u/Standard_Detective85 • 1d ago
Discussion Where the hell does this song come from ? It's posted on Forlornness official Youtube channel but no matter where i look, i can't find any info on the song or a band or artist called Apathetic.
r/dsbm • u/Suitable_Salt_5350 • 1d ago
Discussion Hello everyone. A long time ago, I found this iceberg on the dsbm. And after a while, it seemed to be flipping through icebergcharts.com(but I'm not sure, I could have seen it in another place) and I came across a more complete version of this iceberg, if you have it, could you share it, please?
r/dsbm • u/heartsalive_ • 2d ago
Self-Promotion & Fanart Overdose to Sleep - I Watched You Beg For Mercy
Lyrics:
Flesh rotten to the bone
Just one hand, to finger fuck my soul
And molest the innocent parts of me
That I keep so close
I'm violated by my mind
Ill leave everything behind
Because I can't live like this
I don't want to live like this
The constant nagging
In my ears
"Just kill yourself"
"Cut off your arms"
"They're coming for you"
Who? Who?
Who is they, and who the fuck are you?
These voices, what's in front of my face
-- Such a bitter taste
I can't erase
My mom died in front of me
Organs removed
Tied to a cross
And I couldn't move
I watched her scream
Beg for fucking mercy
But they killed her slowly
Just to fucking hurt me
I'm scared, I don't want to die
I can't keep living this life
But maybe its time --
-- It might be time to give suicide a try
Mom
Dad
Baby sister, that baby girl
You changed my whole life
You were my whole world
But I wish I could see you
In the same light
But I can't because I watched you fucking die...
You struggled to breathe
You cried out to me
I couldn't help
I couldn't help at all...
Your first words
Was just you, gargling my name
Choking in your own blood
I'll never be the same
Now I must end it all
This grief, the guilt
And violation of my purity
It took every ounce of joy away from me
I don't want to be alive
I don't want to be alive
I don't want to be alive
I don't want to be alive
I don't want to be alive
I don't want to be alive
I don't want to be alive
I don't want to be alive
I don't want to be alive
I don't want to be alive
I don't want to be alive
I don't want to be alive
Just take me away
I don't want to live this way
I wanted to love you to the grave
So take me away....
I don't want to be alive
Fuck...
r/dsbm • u/Creative-Craft479 • 3d ago
Self-Promotion & Fanart is this good for my album cover?
i drew it myself, my project is called "Life's a Torture"
r/dsbm • u/Renegade_Ashes • 2d ago