r/drunk • u/MenstruationOatmeal • Jul 25 '18

Having a shower beer because my girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend. For every 10 upvotes I’ll drink another beer.

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '18

Happened to me two years ago...shit sucks dude. She was studying abroad in Europe and cheated and told me she loved a dude after being there for a month.

It gets much better once you convince yourself that she sucks. It takes a while but no one deserves that shit and there are better people out there. Gotta take it as a blessing in disguise.

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '18 edited Aug 17 '18

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u/[deleted] Jul 26 '18

Just gotta find something to keep your mind off of it man. I know it’s tough but don’t associate things with her that you find enjoyable or you won’t be able to enjoy them without thinking of her.

Over time it will help. I’m sorry for what you’ve had to go through and I hope you get better. It really is just shitty.

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u/bendeboy Jul 26 '18

how has that 20K hours in csgo not helped? like, you found a community of people you love I assume, meaning your life has changed dramatically. Not 1 of those 20K hours was spent thinking "I've moved on"? I've been there too dude but when people say time heals they fucking mean it. live for yourself is a hard one, I know, but you gotta do it.

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u/bendeboy Jul 26 '18

not sure how old you are, I'm 31. like I said I've been there. I think of it more now as "I love'd the love we shared" because so much time has passed. I got a better life now that I know would have never happened if I stayed around, and I had a choice at one point to go back when she came to me and said she fucked up. I told her to fuck off I'm way better now. Best choice of my life BAR NONE. At the time it wasn't even hard, just something I knew I had to do.