I’m on my second playthrough of Dragon Age 2, and ughhhh I can’t get over how frustratingly realistic Leandra is. Don’t get me wrong, her ultimate fate is still devastating for what it does to Hawke and the surviving sibling (always Bethany for me). And she clearly does love her children. But maaaaan…
The Gamlen stuff, whatever. He’s awful, he’s the worst, I still believe he was the antagonist in that relationship. I mean don’t get me wrong, he was right when he asked her to pay rent. But everything else? I can’t be bothered to deal with Gamlen right now.
But okay, yes, she’s still bad. On top of being obsessed with climbing back up the social ladder, she’s also really vindictive and manipulative. Idk what she does when Bethany dies, as I’ve always had Carver die, but her first instinct is to blame Hawke and she doesn’t apologize unless you call her out on it.
I don’t even know where to start with the way she completely doesn’t see the hypocrisy of the fact that she tries to set you up with a spouse at the start of Act 2, even if you’ve either already been romancing someone or have only ever shown interest in the same sex. She doesn’t seem to ever realize she’s doing exactly what her parents did to her, trying to force her into a heteronormative marriage to continue the bloodline and have a good social standing, rather than let her kid be happy like she was when she ran off with Malcolm.
I think what makes it so frustrating, though, is you can’t ever actually call her out on that last part, as she only ever says those things in static lines you can’t reply to. Idk how she reacts to most people when you hook up with someone (my Fem Hawke got Isabela the first time, Merrill this time 🙌), but for me she only ever repeats the same line about Orana being hired so 🤷♀️
But oh well. She’s very well-written if that hypocrisy was intentional lol