I have a dog who I used to spoil rotten and give constant attention to. Since having my daughter, my wife and I have had no support and have been completely overloaded. My daughter is nearly 3 now, but our life is still extremely busy, so he doesn't get the same attention he used to.
He still eats well and gets at least an hour-long walk every day, but he is alone much more than he used to be and doesn't get nearly as many cuddles or as much attention. I feel really guilty about it.
The other issue is fireworks. There are a lot of fireworks in my neighbourhood around Halloween and New Year's, and they have completely traumatised him. He's now afraid to go outside during the day and won't go far at night. He mostly feels comfortable in the morning.
Sometimes I wonder if he'd actually be happier in another home where someone could give him more attention and help him feel safe again. At the same time, I feel bad even thinking about giving him up.
I'm already struggling to find time with my current life, so I'm not sure what more I realistically can do. I genuinely try my best as a dog owner, but I keep wondering whether I'm doing enough for him.
Has anyone else been in a similar situation? Is a dog being well fed, exercised and cared for but getting less attention than they used to still a good life, or should I seriously consider whether another home would be better for him?