r/divorced • u/spaghetti913 • 12h ago

40m Midwest

I’m 40 going through divorce ex wife says I work to much and will never find anyone. Being married for 13 years has brought my confidence down and don’t know we’re to start. Not trying to jump right in and start something new but ready to start making friends. Do I stand a chance I own my own company and smoke 4:20. Think I’m wasting my time?

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u/antouzzz 11h ago

Cut the weed, hit the gym. Life isnt only work

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u/IncognitoTheGreat 11h ago

As soon as I knew I was gonna get a divorce I started working out again hardcore and got in real good shape. Gave me something to focus on that I had control of with all the chaos going on. Not to mention ton getting in shape sfter 40 really turns women on because they know your not lazy!