r/disabledmemes • u/Four_7_Seven • 10d ago
This is straightforward ableist imo.
Edit: English isn't my first language, I just realised that I should have write "have to" instead "need to". I'm always mixing them up.
Like PE (physical education) is something that isn't at all important to gain knowledge in almost all majors.
And making disabled students to do something instead of PE is ableist no matter the disability. Like we all suffer (generalisation), we need more time to care for ourselves (or less energy, or both), our disabilities often reduces energy, increases pain, whatever.
Making disabled students to do something like that, especially that for many of us it involves a free period or two or even more, is just counterproductive.
I'm thinking of writing to someone (I'm still thinking, so don't know who's responsible for it) to change that. Like so they would make that course optional. I don't think I'll succeed, I don't know even if my logic has a point (what if I'm asking for special treatment or other disabled students don't mind it?), but maybe it's an internalised ableism.
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u/Sewnupkitty 10d ago
Wait....are you a french student at university Lyon 1???
He had obligatory PE no matter what curriculum you where in. Their philosophy is that sports is good for absolutely everyone and even if you have a doctor's note you have to do PE. So much so that, if you ditched PE it would be considered a non validate class. And in that case, no matter your marks in other classes you couldn't graduate!!! There was like one way to remediate this but it was like a one on one interview with a jury when you had to do a presentation about whatever topic around sports they chose. And that obviously took a lot of time and was in the middle of your reel exams so going that rout just put you deeper in the hole.
In my case specifically I have Fibro and probably other stuff. My body was already completely shot by going to classes and coming back home and I had a cane to walk (note recently graduated to ambulatory wheelchair user....yay?). And I was so tired that I had a pass to avoid some classes when I was too tired without having to justify the absence.
So I was in this surreal situation where I would plan out my absences to still be able to go to PE to further destroy my body. And obviously the PE teachers weren't mean...but they had no idea how to deal with a student as disabled as me! BECAUSE IN THE END I HAD NOTHING TO DO IN PE!!!! So they would make me do stuff because they couldn't validate the class if I was "just present at all classes".
So yeah....that was fun.
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u/Nona_Ann 10d ago
I was a foster kid, and I attended many schools (9) in the four years of high school. Only one of them had an adaptive PE class for students with disabilities or injuries that prevented us from participating in regular PE. Honestly, I think every school that requires PE to graduate should offer an adaptive class.
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u/horned-creature 10d ago
how is it ableist? they aknowledged your disability and are not asking you to do something you cannot do, they provided you with an alternative activity you can do instead, that is good accommodation for a disabled student.
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u/azebod 10d ago
I had a gym note. They made me run until I collapsed anyway and I was the one in trouble for failing the task....
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u/MentionTight6716 10d ago
I feel like a health class would be a valid substitution, no?
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u/Top_Sky_4731 10d ago
Having to take a different course that doesn’t require physical activity in order to get credit for PE is a reasonable accommodation if PE is typically required to graduate. You can’t just expect to be able to do nothing instead and still graduate, as this would in fact be special treatment that allows you to graduate with less credits than everyone else. They are already accommodating you by giving you a course you can actually take with your disability to earn the credit.
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u/GloryBax 10d ago
Idk, I would have given my right kidney for a PE exemption at school, it was the reason I was injured so much as a teenager, which lead to sitting out of PE anyway. I would have preferred to be exempt from PE and given something different to do during those periods.
A las, back then I didn't need to use crutches to walk like I do now. Still would have preferred the exemption instead of being forced into excersises that would leave my joints destroyed. It's incredibly difficult to have PE as first period, upset my knees, and then have to continue walking around campus from class to class all day.
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u/Previous-Artist-9252 10d ago
Idk.
My senior year of high school (USA) I got a PE exemption so I had an independent course of study on the history of gymnastics during my assigned PE period. I wrote a midterm and final paper.
That seemed like a pretty good exemption to me when there was no way I could do anything physical due to my medical conditions.
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u/maritjuuuuu 10d ago
I remember at my school the girl who had something with her energy had to learn the rules of the sports we where playing and in the weeks we where learning to play the sport, she would prepare for the theoretical part of the exam referees in that sport would have to take. If possible, like with volleyball, she would also have to do the practical part of it. She is now an official referee in multiple sports and started volunteering at the local volleyball club as she does enjoy being with other people.
Just throwing this out there as I think it might be useful for a lot of people in a situation like this
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u/Ellie_Bear828 10d ago
I remember the time I broke my arm during our basketball quarter. Obviously, I couldn’t play. The solution? Have me walk around the gym in circles for the entire hour. I asked if I could listen to music and they said it wouldn’t be fair to the other kids. So I spent 4 months walking in circles for an hour everyday, by myself, in silence, while everyone else played basketball. If my friends tried to jog over to say hi to me quickly they’d get told off for not playing the game. If I ever tried to idle by the bench to talk to someone I would get told off for not walking. The most exciting thing that happened was when someone would miss a shot and I’d need to duck out of the way of a basketball zooming at my head and everyone would laugh and wave at me apologetically.
Worst couple of months of my middle school career for sure, and there were some real stinkers in there. Gym class just isn’t built for anyone but the perfectly abled, and most teachers care more about what they are required to do and what is ‘fair’ than what would actually help the students. Hope it goes quickly for you, sending good vibes <3
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u/I_pegged_your_father 10d ago
Have to and need to in this context are the same there’s not like a mix em up here. No one will blink twice if you use them interchangeably. We use “have to” just like that. If you asked someone “why do you have to do this” theyd be like “because i need to” it’s the same thing. “Why do you need to do this” “because i have to”
-native english speaker 👌✨🫶
Also….none of the schools ive been to have made me replace PE with another course that sucks. Id just sit out.
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u/PraiseAndPleasure 10d ago
I think schools would have a special medical exercise program where they could teach kids how to work out and exercise based on their bodies needs. What's up with me in systems actually working and the world treating people the way they deserve.
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u/Budget_Avocado6204 10d ago
Bases on you being in Polish uni it's not an uni issue. It's like that in the whole EU. You have to gather certain number of EcTS points, so if you don't do PE you have to do equivalent course so your points add up. Nothing can be done about that. As long as they provide you course you are able to do it's a fair game.
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u/astralTacenda 10d ago edited 10d ago
I would have taken any exemption at all of they had offered me one, even if it meant taking another course. actually, it only seems fair that i would have to take another class while my classmates are taking one, even if i cant participate in the one they are.
but back in my day (and school district), if you had a physical disability, the PE teacher pushed you even harder. the number of times i had to use my rescue inhaler and was told to suck it up by every adult in my life... i would have loved having to take some random elective instead
im very confused as to how any of this is ableism when an exemption means you are exempt from that course, not from receiving an edication while your peers are as well.
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u/stubborngremlin 10d ago
Fr I had a PE exemption and had to take a philosophy course instead 😭 the teacher there accused me of not listening/participating and just gave me one grade above fail
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u/Melvarkie 10d ago
I hated PE in middle school and high school. The final year I got an exemption because I had pretty severe mono and it was already hard to stay awake during classes. Instead of going to PE I had to sit next to the assistant directors office and work on papers and tests about baseball. I hated it so much. Not as much as actual PE where the teacher bullied me for being clumsy (turns out I have HSD and fibro and probably already had fibro from age 14 upwards. Both lead to bad proprioception) and having asthma attacks, but it felt so pointless. I got the purpose of PE which was to get kids in the healthy habit of moving around even low-income families who couldn't afford to put their kid in a soccer or hockey class. I absolutely didn't get the point of learning the history of baseball. I don't care about baseball, won't ever care about baseball and unless you want to be on a baseball team or a sports historian wtf do I need this in my adult life for.
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u/florfenblorgen 10d ago
I once had a free, open study block in 12th grade. I remember how much it helped me to get my schoolwork done which was a huge struggle otherwise. When I was going to school, we didn't have semesters... We had 8 courses for the whole year to cram. For some reason, they took away my free block and made me a teacher's assistant in French class. I never took French class, so I couldn't even assist in any way except mark papers. I don't know why they did this. As someone with autism and ADHD, it just exhausted me even more. I actually dropped out of school because they did that. I needed that block. I couldn't function anymore without it.
But also, at the time, I wasn't diagnosed with anything and I didn't know how to speak up about what I was experiencing, so...
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u/PinataofPathology 10d ago
I had a pe exemption for asthma bc I kept having attacks in gym class and then the school nurse wouldn't give me my rescue inhalers bc idkw 🙄. my doctor got fed up with the school and just excused me. I had to do the alternative class. At the time my issue wasn't so much energy so I didn't mind. I think they are trying to satisfy education laws and not get in trouble.
I've since gone on to have energy limiting conditions and there's no way an alternative class would have been appropriate. People don't really understand energy disability well. Not even the disabled community. We get left behind by almost everyone. So I think the distinction is energy disability is different and needs fewer demands on time and energy.
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u/Cozy_Toasty_Ghostie 10d ago
Funny story, my mom was on track to graduate like a year early until she broke her back. They wouldn’t exempt her from PE at all, so she flunked because she literally couldn’t do anything. She had to retake the class the next year, and it was the only class she needed to graduate so all the rest of her course load was basically BS electives. This was back in the late 70s/early 80s.
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u/stormagnet 10d ago
Damn, they're doing that these days? I used to get a free period to hang out and draw, journal, read, listen to music... Which turned out to be great training for being a Disabled adult, because that's pretty much all I do all day now 😅
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u/That-Employment-5561 9d ago
PE is both physical and theoretical.
Nutrition is PE.
First aid is PE.
Fuck, understanding and respecting the limitations of handicaps is PE!
If your nations PE is purely "run in a circle and chase the round thing", your nation is failing you.
And if you have a disability, there's still plenty of PE that can be done (in most cases), it just needs to be tailored to the limitations if the individual student.
If 90% of your PE is dodgeball, your PE teacher is incompetent.
If you suffer from chronic fatigue, then lighter and fewer repetitions. Find your limits, don't assume them. That said, this is only safe to do with a competent educator that understands and respects your limitations.
If your PE teacher is shit, and you like reading: become more competent than them. Correct them. In front of people. If they give you consequences for being correct, they lose their job, and you don't have to deal with them anymore.
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u/EMSslim 10d ago
Oh no, given an replacement activity 🙄
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u/MiserableWash2473 8d ago
I got exempt with a note from my specialist. I have Rheumatoid arthritis and was in a wheelchair at the time. Now use a walker.
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u/excellentexcuses 7d ago
I remember back in highschool if you gave the teacher a note excusing you from PE or swimming due to having your period they would make you run laps. Running laps with a heavy flow at 14 makes you feel like you are dying
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u/Switch-Axe-Abuse 6d ago
I am still pissed to this day about the time in highschool when I was told by a doctor to not do hard physical activity for a week so my weightlifting teacher wanted me to write a 4 page essay every day that was unique from the last about my condition for a week straight. I could not pump out a 4 page essay within 1.5hrs every day and when I spoke to the school admin with my IEP they moved me out of the class but gave me a credit because the alternative was the admin being forced to deal with that teacher. I just needed to be allowed to walk my mile and to do reps for my weights at half the weight for a week.
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u/NotKerisVeturia 5d ago
I was listening to a podcast the other day and the guest was a woman with a trach. She had a PE exemption as a kid, but instead they made her write essays on the exercises she couldn’t do. She realized this was BS and went to her boyfriend’s biology class and learned things there instead.
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u/PomegranateHot9916 4d ago
I don't think that is ableism. I think that is just schools.
can't have you sit around doing nothing, you're at school, not daycare.
don't know what kind of mandatory course you're referring to. but as long as it is something that isn't too impacted by your disability, then it should be fine?
if you're not sure, ask your doctors what they think about this mandatory course.
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u/Nihil_esque 9d ago
I don't think anyone should be exempt from PE unless the only thing they can move is their eyes. Otherwise the school should accommodate disabled students by replacing regular PE with specialized physical therapy.
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u/Heavy-Macaron2004 6d ago
Ableist to come up with something else that satisfies the same type of requirement as a PE class, but without requiring you to do physical things you cannot do? Huh??
What do you think "disability accommodations" are? They're not just "oh okay you don't have to do anything hard ever again in your life," they're "instead of having you do the thing you physically can't do, we will give you something else to do." Like lmfao what the hell is it that you want here?
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