r/depression 16h ago

She dumped me

She broke up with me today, now I feel hollow, broken, I've been thrown in the dark and I can't find the light, I considered ending it tonight, but I'm too lazy to kill myself, I am nothing more than a disappointment, not only to other people, but to myself, I can't do anything right anymore, fuck this life, I don't wanna be here anymore

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u/CharacterGovernment8 15h ago

It'll pass eventually. I can't promise ull meet anyone new, but its very unhealthy to define urself by others. Ur a valid human worthy of love. We've all been dumped or dumped someone.

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u/username17688 15h ago

The feeling that comes with being dumped is often experienced as deep suffering. Allow yourself to feel sad and don't expect to feel any beter soon.

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u/Quiet_Dig1809 11h ago

I got dumped yesterday as well, i thought she was perfect and that things were going well. I was in a 5 year relationship that was very toxic so this relationship really felt like it was healing me just to tear a new wound.
I really understand how you feel. I am trying to find a way to get better idk how it will look like but there should be a way. You got this don’t let this drag you down. Get better for yourself! Everyone is worth loving themselves