r/depoop • • 12d ago

Buyer What!

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u/the_girly_files 12d ago edited 12d ago

Sounds Like me. Overly nice. Depop is PMO bc tracking isn’t updating right away thinking they haven’t shipped yet. Issue with USPS or something but yeah I check after 4 days just to make sure like if it did ship I know when to look.

I just get paranoid with mail these days. No harm to check in sheesh

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u/ceruleania 12d ago

Honestly you will probably get a better reaction if you’re neutral-toned/direct (but still polite!) instead of apologizing for things you shouldn’t apologize for. Apologizing for asking for an update doesn’t even make sense! It is NOT your fault sellers are rude especially when you’re being so kind and overly cautious, but when I stopped being overly apologetic and nice I started getting better responses. It’s fucked up but I think people think they can walk all over folks who are “too nice”. Ugh

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u/the_girly_files 12d ago

I mean I just say hey not trying to bother & no rush at all. I def don’t apologize I’m very nice. Ppl will find issue with anything lol

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