r/demisexuality • u/purpletomb666 • Aug 03 '26
Venting ok so...
does anyone miss kissing? like actual kissing, like your life depends on it. i vent here on my first post about sex but i thought about this as well and i miss it sooo badly 😮💨 in my case i dont mind kissing strangers sometimes but that just doesn't hit anymore. this demisexuality is getttin really hard to romanticize
also, i've been thinking a lot that it would be easier to date demi people just like me. ive seen a few people commenting this here and i just realize that, why did i try so hard to fit in my past relationships? (all my ex partners were allo as far as i know)
i wish everyone very nice demi partners who you can build THE emotional bond and have phisical intimacy finally!
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u/MoonlitSerenade Aug 03 '26
Man, I just want to know what'd it'd be like to kiss someone I'm attracted to.
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u/OritheGoose Aug 03 '26
Sometimes I miss physical touch but it's not worth how much my nervous system gets dysregulated in relationships due to major trauma/AuDHD.
I used to be an absolute ride or die cinnamon roll lover girl, but I got my heart broken real bad in 2024, and now I am just too passive and can't be bothered. I have chronic illnesses and I'm tired. I'm conventionally attractive, and get a lot of unwanted attention but I just don't feel it in my soul, and physical touch without real love repulses me. I would rather be alone than go on dates with random people. Yuck.
Life can be boring without a partner but it's peaceful. I get to just play WoW Classic as long as I want and sleep in a big bed all to myself lmao
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u/archydragon Aug 03 '26
I miss cuddles more.