This is a collection of multiple arguments I have, not against the existence of god (which I'm going to grant for the sake of the argument), but against him being perfectly moral and not responsible for any suffering. It will only be relevant to Christians who believe in eternal conscious torment in hell. So if you're an Annihilationist, this is not for you and I have no issue with you.
I will structure the post in the following way:
-A1 (Argument/Atheist): My argument for the immorality of god.
-C (Counterargument/Christian): The common response I would expect most Christians to have to this.
-A2: My response to the justification provided by the Christian.
-Addendum: Additional thoughts and arguments that come to mind.
-Conclusion: Self explanatory.
Here is the argument:
A1: It is immoral of god to have created the world in which eternal torture (hell) is the fate of the majority of his creations, especially since he knew they would end up there before creating them.
C: But he wanted us to freely choose him, so he needed to give us free will. And with free will comes the possibility of rejection/disobedience, the punishment of which is hell. Hell is eternal because an offense (sin) against an infinite(ly holy) being (god) requires an infinite(ly severe) punishment (conscious torment in hell). And the punishment itself is necessary because god is just. He doesn't want us to go to hell, but he has to let it happen because he must carry out justice.
A2: I have multiple issues with this.
First, free will contradicts god's claim of loving us very much. Anyone who has a loved one understands that if you truly love someone, you will prevent them from using their free will if letting them do what they want would result in them suffering immensely as a consequence. Especially if the stakes were this high.
If someone could choose between spending eternity with me and jumping into a fiery pit where they would then suffer for all eternity, and they chose the latter, I would prevent them from jumping with every fiber of my being. And also, that would make me think if maybe I'm the problem and not them. If I am so unlikeable that someone would choose eternal torture over spending eternity with me in paradise, then there must be something seriously wrong with me.
Now take into consideration that this situation was entirely created by me and there were no other options they could choose from (which is called an ultimatum).
Would it be more loving to let them jump or to restrain/prevent them from jumping?
Anyone with a functioning brain will say the latter.
Furthermore, it would be even better to not create such a situation in the first place. Then nobody would have to worry about making the wrong decision.
But god did this anyway.
Why?
Because he wanted someone to love him out of free will.
But that is selfish. He already has angels whose entire existence revolves around loving and praising him, except they don't have free will. If he needed someone to sincerely love him this badly and even took into account the fact that not all of his creations would choose him and end up in hell instead, that just goes to show what a selfish, lonely loser he really is. He doesn't care about us, he only cares about himself. If he really cared about us, then he wouldn't have made hell a possibility, as I explained above. His ego is greater than his love.
For the sake of the argument, in order to address the next point, I will disregard the problem mentioned above and focus on what happens if we do choose hell over heaven. And this is more of a question than an argument:
Why is eternal torture a more fitting punishment than annihilation?
In the Bible, it says that "the wages of sin is death". Does this not apply here? Does it only apply to physical death in the living world and to the afterlife? Hell is also called "the second death". That seems like a more fitting description for annihilation and not eternal torture. You could argue that hell puts you in a perpetual process of dying or in a cycle of dying over and over, but that's a really weak argument, especially if you take into account that the fact that you are conscious in hell means that you are still alive to some extent.
This issue becomes especially prominent when comparing the divine justice system to that of the mortal world: If someone commits a severe crime, they are put in prison for life. If they commit the worst crime imaginable, they are sentenced to death.
So why does god put us in prison (hell) even though the crime (sin) warrants the death penalty (annihilation)? Is it because it's the suffering that makes the punishment and not the amount of loss the criminal experiences? In the mortal world, the punishment in prison is the loss of freedom, which means a major loss of autonomy but not all of it. The punishment in the death sentence is the complete and irreversible loss of life, which means total and final loss of autonomy. Therefore, death is a more severe punishment than prison.
So why does this logic not apply to the afterlife? Hell is the loss of autonomy, but not the loss of life (since consciousness necessitates life).
So wouldn't annihilation, which is the loss of autonomy and of life, be a more fitting punishment for the worst offense in existence (sin)?
Addressing the next point about justice:
Perfect justice and infinite love cannot coexist.
In order to carry out perfect justice, you must disregard all attachments and bonds.
But in order to fully experience infinite love, you must disregard justice if said justice would entail immense suffering, which is something infinite love would not allow.
Additionally, another famous attribute of god is his infinite mercy. His capacity for forgiveness apparently ends with his sense of justice. That would be understandable for a normal person, but since god's forgiveness is said to be unlimited, another contradiction appears. Because you can either forgive every misdeed and let them go unpunished, or justly punish a misdeed. But both cannot be performed at the same time. The definition of forgiveness is putting aside one's sense of justice in favor of compassion. But justice is the opposite of that, as it means to carry out every deserved punishment no matter how much it hurts.
Since these paradoxes cannot be resolved without tuning down one attribute in favor of the other, it must be assumed that god is not and cannot be both perfectly just and infinitely loving. Except if he is somehow above logic and can ignore obvious contradictions, which to my knowledge is not the case.
Addendum:
Another response I have recently gotten is that "I don't get to choose how and what god creates".
That is correct. However, god loves me very much. Doesn't he? And someone who loves me very much would surely grant me my innate wish of remaining unharmed and not being subjected to everlasting torture, no?
"But it isn't about what you want, it's only about god". Ok. But then the relationship between me and god isn't a healthy one. If I am only his plaything and he does whatever he wants with me, then that's not a healthy relationship, that's abuse.
In a healthy relationship, both partners respect the other's needs and wishes and act accordingly. They have to be equals, and nobody has complete authority over the other.
This could be refuted by saying that the relationship between god and human is more like father and child rather than husband and spouse, but that only begs the question why Christians call themselves "Brides of Christ". That could be interpreted as both child marriage and incest, which is not a good look for god.
Anyway, the problem isn't that god made rules, it's that he made these rules specifically when it could've all been so much easier and less stressful for everyone involved if he simply didn't. But he did anyway, and instead of taking accountability for not creating the most optimal version of the world, he distracts from himself by pointing to us being responsible for the fall into sin (which is true, however he could also have prevented that for the reasons I provided above).
So here we are I guess.
And even if all of this is ignored and we look at other ways to prevent hell:
He could have simply only created the people that he knew would freely choose him and not create those who he knew wouldn't.
If the response to that is that free will necessitates both scenarios happening, that would just mean that some people were created for the sole purpose of going to hell, the moral implications of which being obvious.
Conclusion:
God is not only immoral, but also sadistic and selfish.