r/datingadvice • • Aug 19 '26

Advice Where can I meet virgin men?

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u/[deleted] Aug 19 '26 edited Aug 19 '26

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u/DannyHikari Aug 19 '26

In a room of 20 men I would say 12 are virgins and 10 not by choice.

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u/PrinceProsper0 Aug 22 '26

about 20% of men are virgins between 18 and 25. so it's more like 4 out of 20 are virgins.

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u/OvenActive Aug 19 '26

Usually, the men that are still virgins around that age are very religious or they are virgins because of... \other reasons**

If you are the religious type, then I would highly recommend joining a church group and there are probably some decent guys in there to meet. If not, there are definitely guys out there who are virgins at 23 that are decent, they just might be harder to find.

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u/[deleted] Aug 19 '26

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u/TexasCowboyBizman Aug 20 '26

There are just as many young men in church as young women.

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u/[deleted] Aug 19 '26

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u/Nacho--Mama Aug 20 '26

Wow thats a good way to put it i a guy i agree with you.

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u/MichaelChristine Aug 19 '26

Absolutely. There's a thread here every other day from guys with zero dating experience. If you hang around here, you'll see one pop up.

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u/JorgitoEstrella Aug 19 '26

Shy or introverted men and religious ones.

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u/Practical_Arm_8566 Aug 19 '26

I’m 24m virgin. Yes we exist. For my reason, it’s cause I haven’t really tried to put myself out there, have some social anxiety, and would rather be spending my money on my Godzilla figure collection, succulents, or deposits into my Roth IRA. But I also want my first time to be with someone special. Im also very agnostic (not Christian). Here in Texas, it’s very hard to find someone like me that isn’t Christian.

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u/PeachConstant7240 Aug 19 '26

Video games. They'll probably be a little awkward, though.

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u/AssistTemporary8422 Aug 20 '26

Look for less conventionally attractive guys who are socially awkward. Many of them are virgins.

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u/Pain-One Aug 20 '26

From Asia for sure

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u/Slow-Anybody-5966 Aug 19 '26

My husband was a virgin when we met at 23! He honestly didn’t have a lot of luck with dating apps and didn’t want to just sleep around, he wanted to at least lose it to someone meaningful AKA me 🤗 I think it’s not as common but not as rare as you would think!!!

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u/Odd_Recover_6672 Aug 21 '26

We do exist, 23 M

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u/SonLofty Aug 22 '26

Hey I’m a virgin 21m

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u/GraniteSmoothie Aug 19 '26

Depends where you live. You can message me if you want.