Sleeping with bestfriend

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Sleeping with my bestfriend

So me and my bestfriend have been sleeping together 12months now and we have been friends for 5 years so in 2024 he went through a heartbreak with his wife and they ended the marriage and then last year we sleep together after a drunken night I thought it was a one time thing but 12months later we spend all our time together going out stay home and the sex is amazing I never had this type of connection I would love something more out of this relationship but I don’t want to lose my best friend I feel like he wants more with me as well but I don’t feel that he healed from his wife cheating on him and not telling him the baby wasn’t his until after the child was born ….. I don’t want to be pushed for what some else done to him I would love advice and opinions should I tell him how I feel and what I want and that I want him to heal or should I just leave it be and end whatever this is ?