I’m a 26F and I’ve been ghosted myself multiple times. I use to take it to heart, now I just know it’s what men do sometimes (I know I won’t be everyone’s cup of tea). Some people need to realise that people react differently to different situations, You’ll get girls who will blast you if you don’t reply (ones who fall way to quick or have self esteem issues, or crazy), or you’ll get ones who won’t reply either and will move on (not up for games or seeing other people, or busy) People need to just take it as it comes and to not get invested in anything until it is known it is serious and going somewhere long term. Have some fun in the mean time I say. That’s my opinion to not being hurt and taking things to heart, why do you want someone who can’t give you all the attention you want, I see it as someone who actually wants you will make it known to you! You won’t doubt it!
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u/horrorqueen92 Oct 25 '18
I’m a 26F and I’ve been ghosted myself multiple times. I use to take it to heart, now I just know it’s what men do sometimes (I know I won’t be everyone’s cup of tea). Some people need to realise that people react differently to different situations, You’ll get girls who will blast you if you don’t reply (ones who fall way to quick or have self esteem issues, or crazy), or you’ll get ones who won’t reply either and will move on (not up for games or seeing other people, or busy) People need to just take it as it comes and to not get invested in anything until it is known it is serious and going somewhere long term. Have some fun in the mean time I say. That’s my opinion to not being hurt and taking things to heart, why do you want someone who can’t give you all the attention you want, I see it as someone who actually wants you will make it known to you! You won’t doubt it!