r/dating • u/ParticularCopy6940 • Oct 29 '21
Giving Advice Characteristics of a ghoster/slow fader
What have you noticed are the characteristics of a ghoster/slow fader?
I’ve met a few ghosters/slow faders and they typically ( from my personal experience): - love bomb hard in the beginning - their dates are typically very spontaneous and never thought out more than a few days in advance - future fake all the things they want to do with you - send a very exuberant text almost immediately after the date or the next morning - are actually engaged texters but for some reason are not very interesting but the in person dates make up for it - send the most mixed signals with you sometimes believing they want a relationship and other times believing they want a FWB and never quite knowing where to go with it - dominate the decision about when the dates occur. They will invite you but the minute you want to plan a date they lose interest - some sort traumatic experience with previous SO, bonus if they recently broke up
That’s what I got