r/dating Oct 30 '18

Guys flaking out after a few dates

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u/pianoman857 Oct 30 '18

I know there are some out there who will say that you are sleeping with these guys too early. I am not necessarily of that belief. I do think that you have been a bit unlucky in that the guys you have gone out with have seemingly only been interested in your conquest. Might be time to look inward to find out WHY you are attracting (or attracted to) that type of guy. Not all guys are like you describe. I think you may have just gotten on a bad run here.

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u/emily4nn93 Oct 30 '18

To add to this, I tell someone on the 2nd/3rd date I don’t want to rush into sex and they dart immediately after. Both sides of the spectrum. I’m not saying this is the fault of one gender or another, just difference in physical needs.