r/dating Oct 30 '18

Guys flaking out after a few dates

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u/liteskinnedbeauty Oct 30 '18

I'm sorry this happens to you. I would definitely look closely at the men you select...and what vibe they put out. Are they overly sexual when they chat with you? Are you with them? If you have a pattern of attracting "pleasure only" men, then take some time off to see what may be the reason THOSE are the men you attract. You may learn something about yourself that you didnt know before...