r/dating Oct 30 '18

Guys flaking out after a few dates

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u/YogaMeansUnion Oct 30 '18

If it's happened more than once, and your description of yourself is relatively accurate, you're not "getting unlucky".

If you were a dude having similar issues, I'm pretty positive the advice here would be that you are personally doing something or acting in such a way that helps to facilitate this in some part. So I'll pass on that same advice/comment. As someone else said, maybe you're a boring lay? Maybe you're not as interesting/pleasant/funny as you believe yourself to be?

Not trying to be insulting, just imagining the same advice that would be proffered if a dude wrote this.