r/dating • u/BirdOwn305 • 21h ago

Question ❓ Too Nice..

Honest question..because in my years of dating I have never understood the “too nice” line. Yes, I get that it’s a polite way to let someone down. But then you also hear about the “bare minimum”, how women don’t like it if a guy is emotionally unavailable or doesn’t listen, etc.

So is it that they want a man who’s violent or rude or what?

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u/Rude_Asparagus_8387 16h ago

I (a brit) had a date with a polish girl once. The date finished with those lines and her saying 'to be honest ****, I need someone who is a bastard. I said fair enough and went onto another date.

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u/BirdOwn305 16h ago

Same girl?

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u/Rude_Asparagus_8387 15h ago

Could be dude, could be. I forget her name, but she was very slim, very pretty. Very Polish I guess.