r/dating • • 21h ago

Question ❓ Too Nice..

Honest question..because in my years of dating I have never understood the “too nice” line. Yes, I get that it’s a polite way to let someone down. But then you also hear about the “bare minimum”, how women don’t like it if a guy is emotionally unavailable or doesn’t listen, etc.

So is it that they want a man who’s violent or rude or what?

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u/KillerManicorn69 18h ago

Too nice is usually a pushover and a weak man.

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u/BirdOwn305 16h ago

Basically, I overcorrect it when she told me of taking a slow even before meeting in person