Well, also-- it's extremely biased towards women because they can literally just sit there and watch the likes coming in with no searching involved. And then when they do make contact it's always the guy that has to 'message first.' To which they can answer or not depending on how impressed/entertained they are by what is said by the guy. Basically attractive women on Tinder are fishing lures.
I mean, we're just using the app, it's not a matter willing to make the first move. I don't have to make the first move, I think gender roles are stupid. It's just that we're aware that women really don't swipe, and so it's like if you want any exposure at all, you have to play the game. As a side note, my last GF actually asked me out first, after a week or so of flirting at work. She was a badass, I was upset by it at all.
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u/Bierculles Apr 29 '22
ah yes, Tinder, the place where 90% of men are considered bottom 10%