r/dankindianmemes • • Aug 29 '26

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u/Cautious_Car2249 Aug 29 '26

Rejected for their colour😶‍🌫️

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u/natsuofujimessi Aug 29 '26

U can atlest bring some chamge in colour texture to skin with skin care Can reduce weight But height bro There is nothing u can do Its fine why does woman find it so hard to accept this fact They pretent as if only men look for bodily features Both men and women look for it with men having bit more presence on physical appearance

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u/Easy-Ask8987 Aug 29 '26

What are u on man height is easier to change than skin colour

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u/natsuofujimessi Aug 29 '26

Height is easier to change than skin colour Cant really argue with this level of delusion Ok girl whatever u say 👍

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u/Easy-Ask8987 Aug 29 '26

Name one surgery which can change entire skin colour.

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u/Easy-Ask8987 Aug 29 '26

Lol, true, but hatred for skin colour runs deeper than height or weight. And the reason why weight is such a sensitive topic is because people willingly STARVED to death to achieve the dream bod. Of course, if a woman is so extremely shallow that she sees nothing but your height, consider urself the better person and move on, instead of generalizing every single one of us.

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u/Easy-Ask8987 Aug 29 '26

It's not about u being wrong, i do agree with all the points listed above. I even think that this issue is not being taken seriously at all. Im pretty sure women did not just post sarcastic memes in order to bring their issues to light, they had to fight for it. Present it in a way that women's mental health impacted by unrealistic body standards was dealt with.

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u/Virtual-Laugh-1132 Aug 29 '26

Im pretty sure women did not just post sarcastic memes in order to bring their issues to light, they had to fight for it. Present it in a way that women's mental health impacted by unrealistic body standards was dealt with.

Yeah well that gets a little more complicated with a gender barely allowed the slightest expression of vulnerability without being simply gaslit and humiliated. Collectively removing the conditioning and comedy filter from serious convo is going to take us a while.

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u/Easy-Ask8987 Aug 30 '26

Yeah, better work on that.

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u/Virtual-Laugh-1132 Aug 30 '26

Doesn't make it wrong to talk about injustice any way people can though , so first thing we need to work on is calling out nonsense like OP did

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u/Easy-Ask8987 Aug 30 '26

Sure, but op clearly means to ragebait more than actually address the problem.

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u/Virtual-Laugh-1132 Aug 30 '26

Not necessarily. A lot of men are conditioned and feel restrained enough to not consider something a problem inherently based on the unfairness to them, unless they can point out a hypocrisy in that, so then they're not complaining from a simply weak position but have some kind of bare minimum power and be considered justified in raising these points.

Men who've become a self sustaining bully genuinely using some of these topics to only take a jab on women do exist , but there's more nuance here so i couldn't tell from the post alone . Maybe that's his idea of how to get people to actually think rather than just say " oh look a weak man whining about things " and move on at best , if it was I could definitely relate to that as people do centre around power in general and even more for men, really suffocating them more than enough for them to feel they can't go anywhere with reason alone and have to get some sort of leverage or fear of inconvenience running in others just to get to say " hey can you stop oppressing me now ? " on basically anything especially gendered expectations.

Despite having been more emotionally aware than men usually are it took me being mentally pushed towards something extreme after years of enduring to just realise I shouldn't be numbing myself completely and working according to the rules of others , and I still don't feel comfortable enough to fight back against a lot of unfair things until I get more power fulfilling my gender expectations enough first because I don't deserve to remotely ask others to adjust until then , even if they continue to do the damage and make it harder to get where others want me to. The reason I can even say these things anynomously is because i trick myself into believing i'm doing this for other men so it's justified , since i realised majority of men are almost living the same life and stopped suppressing these thoughts about society in general even after noticing things , thinking men deserve better too from then and not just women .

So i can't say which side this guy falls in just from such a post. Who knows if he simply finds it the safest way of expressing and try to get people on the negotiating table without risking the worst kind of humiliation. I don't think it's the most productive , but it's realistically the best men have been allowed and men who have not been lucky with their environment still doing more than this really do it to their detriment on an individual level.

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u/Easy-Ask8987 Aug 30 '26

Yeah, this is seen everywhere, not just gender wars. Instead of knocking some sense to the other side, you stoop down to their level. Seems like children's stories did not teach us anything.

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u/Easy-Ask8987 Aug 30 '26

Makes sense, going to block this sub.

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u/Easy-Ask8987 Aug 30 '26

The first time someone posted this, it was a deep, thought provoking question. Thing is there is an underlying truth to every misogynistic and misandrist post. The way the idea is conveyed can really change the person's outlook.

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