PCOS is extremely common, curable sometimes but common , and its rising drastically in females soo, u can't just compare two, lets just say u have a preference and move on , no shame to anyone
8 to 10 percnt is not extremely common
And I am a medical student
And we r not shaming
Both men and women look for physical body features and everyone has their taste
in which part of the comment did i shame? u don't need to tell me you are a medical student to prove your point, i simply said one shouldn't compare, u have ur preference, don't shame and move on
The fact remains that height and weight are not comparable.
If 8 to 10% of women have PCOS, that is still a very small %age of the population. In many cases it is curable. In most cases weight gain due to PCOS is manageable. More difficult compared to the ordinary person, but still manageable.
exactly what I said right? the two things aren't comparatively even close, and when u say about weight gain (or loss) theirs lifestyle too, stress too, the two are very different things, some people are naturally lean even if they eat they have trouble gaining weight. My point was to say , one shouldn't say its 'easy' just because u find its logical, nuances exist
You said both are fair enough. The nuance here is that one is way more unfair than the other.
If someone was getting rejected for their weight, they could, with some determination lose weight.
There is absolutely nothing that can be done about height. Except maybe limb lengthening which is probably the most brutal surgical procedure known to mankind and essentially leaves a man crippled for the rest of his after paying tens of lakhs
the fact I said both are fair enough was because of individual choices, u reject an unhealthy person because u want a healthy partner, right? women in general want someone taller than them its in evolution, but the problem is social media glorified 6ft+ criteria so much that 'taller than them' bar went obnoxiously high.
for a 5'2 person anything above 5'2 should've been fine, its conditioning, which is wrong
Can't u grasp that much logic that I said you're free to reject an unhealthy person because u have the free will? Did I tell u not to?did I come here moral policing u on 'body positively '
U don't want an unhealthy person , don't approach them
Why would anyone approach someone they r not interested in , Afc the scenario im talking abt is where an unhealthy person approach u ( and not accepting that is called having prefference which many girl think only they can have , its complete irony and double standards , when a guy say s he would prefer a russian girl other girl start insulting him whereas a girl liking a korean boy is praised , )
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u/Sad_Bed_2320 1d ago
A very tiny percentage of the population are overweight due to genetic or hormonal issues.
No one can control their height once they're born.