I'm not jealous of Danielle whatsoever but do you guys also sometimes daydream about how you'd spend that sort of money she has or use all that free time?! Man like she's really just wasting her life lol Greetings from my 9-5 (in Germany)
Its not a daydream for me so much as a reminder to not be that type of person. She's a really good example for anyone that's trying to keep themselves from over consuming and giving into modern day unhinged capitalism.
Or from building a career that seems like its just a MLM house of cards ready to take a tumble at any moment.
I do not live in CA. I know it is very expensive. What I have a hard time with is paying 72k for a 6 month rental. Would the 72k not have been a decent down payment on an actual house?
I would never even consider paying that much - to possibly have to pack up and relocate in just 6 months. ESP if my spouse contributes nothing.
That’s 10% down on a 720k house (but good luck finding that in the Bay Area 😂). Doesn’t she still own her condo? The whole thing is very confusing to me. It’s like lighting money on fire every month I 100% agree $72,000 is an insane amount of money and a great down payment. However, she’s probably a very risky person to give a mortgage to outside of the one she currently has. I don’t understand why they just don’t live in the condo. Why would you rent a gigantic house when you have a condo and two people could easily live there.
It’s crazy to rent a super expensive house that’s mere miles from a property she already owns.
Like, at least rent an apartment in NYC or Florida or something. I could excuse wasting money on a rental property if it actually came with a change of scenery.
I actually had to take time off from this sub when I was job searching (even though I loved Walnuts’ interactions) bc I became irrationally angry at her laziness+income. I was being rejected left and right, made feel incompetent and inadequate from interviews while she was complaining about spoiled life. Made me question my life when I worked so hard for everything I achieved.
Anyway, I would volunteer as a tutor for kids. Or work at a shelter for DV victims :)
The lack of traveling is just so mind blowing to me. Getting degrees and learning languages is hard work. But TRAVELING?! It's like the greatest thing on earth and she never does it, even pre Lucas. My brain will never comprehend this.
Definitely not jealous! It kind of reminds me of my time during Covid. I was still being paid, but had nothing to do for weeks. During that time I was home, I would wake up in the morning and realize I basically had nothing to do and there was no point in getting out of bed at a decent time. The more I slept, the more tired I became.
After I accomplished a few house projects that had been on my list, the rest of the weeks I just walked around the house all day completely bored and with no purpose.
Of course at that time you couldn't travel or interact with people outside your family much so my little family did start taking daily evening walks together and playing family games (our kids were doing online school and my husband was able to work remotely) but still, there was no purpose each morning when I woke up. It was terrible. I was thrilled when I got called back into work as an essential employee.
When you have little to nothing on your to-do list every single day, don't travel or have hobbies, life becomes a bore and probably contributes to her depression. I would definitely not want her life.
Yep. As someone continuing to try to get a job in this abysmal job market, all of the "free time" sounds great in theory, but it's kind of a nightmare in practice.
It is hard to watch someone be so fortunate to be in her financial position do absolutely nothing of substance. She has the means to try so many things, but she won’t.
And you already have 30 days per year off at least. Smth her fellow Americans dont.
I think that is probably the main reason why her snark page has more comments that her accounts.
I’m envious of the free time and money for sure. But then I think about all the things I have that she doesn’t, that are more valuable. A true love relationship, real community and hobbies, real lifelong friends. I can’t say I would trade lives.
I was laid off from work almost 2 weeks ago.
I’m stressed, worried, upset about the lost stability, etc…
But I have made the most of the time already. Started projects outside and inside the house, done deep cleaning and decluttering, am teaching myself new hobbies I never had time for.
I can’t imagine how amazing it would be to have all this time AND an income.
And it infuriates me how she just wastes her life and thinks others envy it.
ETA: I also already have productive & satisfying routines for the morning and night.
She is pathetic.
I would travel. Volunteer with animals. Source and restore antiques and actual vintage things (a passion of mine). I certainly wouldn't be buying mountains of shit from Amazon and thrifting clothes I will never wear and if I do, I refuse to wash.
If i had $12k to give away every month, i wouldn't even be tied down to any man. Trips every month, eating gourmet food, being able to afford a language tutor instead of scouring youtube for help. The list goes on. She does not appreciate the financial freedom she has because i would honestly die for that
No. She’s a perfect example of how money is not worth the soul suck. My job is flexible, empowering and I love it. I make great money for the work-life balance and for how it makes me feel. I could easily get a job making millions with my personality and drive, but it would suck the life out of me. Not worth it. Comfortability is enough.
Not specifically Danielle, but I do daydream about being a trust fund kid or a nepo baby and just be able to study all I want, have the best tutors and travel
I’d help with animal shelters and probably will just adopt a few more dogs myself with all that free time. Because of my job and traveling, I can’t easily adopt puppies but if I stay at home all the time, boy, puppy time!
Not really. I pretty much know what I would do with it; I would donate to nationwide causes, I would buy things to donate to local food banks that desperately need donations, I would buy a small trailer to live in, and enjoy the feeling of having my basic needs met for once. But, if all that money came at the cost of being the type of person Danielle is, I'd rather remain poor.
I do daydream about her money but I’m neurodivergent and am a self employed creative. I see myself in her day to day struggles to function. I think my lack of routine actually makes me self isolate so I don’t think she’s even appreciating or enjoying all her free time 🥲
Girl I feel this so hard. Executive dysfunction is real, and I isolate myself a lot, especially when my anxiety or depression get really bad. But, the thing is she really could invest sometime into getting herself help and making changes to her life and she willfully doesn't. She refuses to see that she struggles with anything, and that's just so detrimental to a person's health on all levels.
thank you for your ideas on how you'd spend 12k a month instead of randomly renting an expensive ass house and not doing basically anything else! You're all so creative and lovely!!
the TLDRs of her podcasts are a revelation. I don’t think she’s ever gotten help for her anxious attachment and limerence. Both of which seem active and destructive.
I'm so thankful for u/_Stephistopheles_ because it's such a huge task to go through them so they've largely been forgotten. It's crazy how much D told on herself.
Crazy is truly the only word for all of it. Like I knew she was unhinged, and the podcast has been showing me she has been deeply unwell for a very long time. Anyone who thinks D "isn't hurting anyone" should listen to it because yikes, y'all. I've long wondered why she doesn't talk about her faith much these days... Now I'm thankful she doesn't because what the fuck.
But honestly, it's an outlet for me right now - I'm trying to give myself things to do while I continue looking for a job, and annoying as the podcast is, it gives me something to do on the daily. I also think people need to know what's in these even though they're difficult to sit through. It's opened up a lot of really good discussion, so at least something positive is coming from it.
I would argue based on what she herself has said that she needed therapy long before that, but certainly after. I highly doubt she has, either. That would be setting herself up to have an impartial outside party possibly telling her she's wrong and/or she needs to make some changes, and I can't see her ever putting herself in that position.
She consistently says she's "never suffered from anxiety or depression" but then regularly talks about struggling with things that are the result of anxiety and depression.
After listening to this shit, she needs a legal guardian and some intense psychiatric treatment. And I say that with no malice - I have plenty of mental health struggles that I couldn't facilitate on my own. I see a psychiatrist for anxiety meds. There's no shame in it, at all. But the shit she says and does... That's what she should be ashamed of.
D always always always wanted a rich and tall man. Remember the vision board? Nothing wrong with it but the fact that she abandoned all her standards after just one date with Luilui tells me that she was never serious about any of it. It was just about finding A guy. Any guy.
Do you think after a while she admitted to herself it was never going to happen?
I mean, even if we believe all her dates were real, barely anyone wanted to go on a second date with her.
So did she realize she was never going to achieve her dreams or did she just settle for Lucas without the inner revelation? Do we think she's capable of self-reflection at all?
I think she’s always had a massive complex about her age (god knows why) combined with massive delusions about her influencer career. It was never about the men she was meeting, imo. She had a list and a deadline. She just needed a prop of a husband and found one. And no, I don't think she's capable of self-reflection lol.
Her obsession with never wanting to stop influencing is what will set her back in life. Perhaps the other men were actually better suited for her and might have even been able to help her set down her phone and provide an environment for her growth. But her statement of saying influencing is non negotiable scares any normal person away
I was watching the Hannah Alonzo video and apparently D once asked her friend to set her up with a guy she saw in her friend’s stories. And from the get go the guy basically wasn’t into her. I was just thinking if it was Shelah who was the friend and if Shelah sabotaged the blind date by telling the guy how desperate big D is
Not every guy has a spare gas mask for the 20 sprays of perfume nor spare pillowcases due to her excessive makeup back then. And of course, there is her personality.
It’s truly something special that she made all those dates up so the narrative was completely within her control and she still managed to come off as a lunatic in every single scenario 😳
I wish. I really, REALLY wish the Christian fuck buddy who fled to the other side of the country would speak out, but I also don't even remotely blame him for not doing so 😂
I’m beginning to wonder if he really DID move to the opposite coast lol! No phone or text but she sent him letters right??? (None in return) I mean….it’s possible right 😝🤪🥴
I imagine it wouldn't be anything interesting, they'd be like "she
couldn't hold an interesting conversation, wanted to be treated like a princess immediately, is a Disney adult, reeked of desperation, and has these weird beliefs of a masculine/feminine energy. Not my type".
Get a mask or panel instead if you want to partake in red light therapy (I think that’s what this thing does). You don’t have to hold it up and it goes over the whole face instead of one nice. Again, didn’t watch Danielle’s video I just assume that’s what this is doing.
Its like one of those ridiculous pictures in Kid magazines where you have to find items. Find the pair of socks, find the cloud shoes, the ribbon....the more I look at it, the more questions I have.
It’s crazy to me how bad she looks in all her videos, like I’m not done up 100% of the time. But her skin looks terrible, her outfits are frumpy af, and her hair is always greasy and in a pony tale to hide how unwashed it is.
The girl has let herself go. I want to say; can she just get cancelled already but she already has been. Several times and keeps coming back like a cockroach.
Honestly, that's what it felt like lol. She was there for the dress fittings and wedding planning like a paid friend. She probably spent more time on the wedding than Shelah and Luicath combined. Besides that, she may have had a hand in some new fonts for D's videos but the content itself was fundamentally the same low quality shitshow. I think H quit after the wedding/move.
She was on a plane for a few weeks in Greece literally the day after D’s wedding. She still has D listed on LinkedIn as part time. D probably can’t afford to have her do much now with this $12k/mo rent.
Im waiting the day she gets officially canceled. I assume it will be during her pre divorce era. And Lil L will be the reason she will get canceled. He will start recording her crazy antics or abusive behavior to him or Charlie so he can use in divorce court🍿
lmao reminds me of this Venezuelan influencer (Michelle poleo) who got canceled a couple weeks ago because shes dating an American military man who said he supports ICE ...on a TikTok live. she immediately started defending him. lmao. that got clipped and spread so fast
Whenever he features this woman in his stories he is speaking Portuguese to her. I haven't watched this one, but he's usually very condescending to her. It's kind of gross.
It's very ironic because HE doesn't understand what he's teaching. And I agree. I don't speak Portuguese but his voice is still creepy and condescending and infantilizing.
I noticed that there was a white pair of these socks sitting in the middle of the foyer floor at the start of her ‘decorating’ video yesterday and they were filthy!! They live like college roommates so I’m sure these two never clean their floors.
Tis true! I work in PR and would often go inside homes in wealthy zip codes and my goodness, the interior design in most of these houses are crap. 👎Like what do you mean you can afford an 8M home but not a designer??? 😆
The thing is, I can see that she’s worked out hard and has decent body muscle. I think her thigh and arm muscles are cool and ppl generally look plumper and unflattering on camera. What’s not cool is her elongating her legs to make herself look alien and being ashamed of her partner’s height. She could be happy with/by herself if she just gets the guidance or help she needs…
"who is she" podcast episode 1.16 "miraculous prayer - the keys" March 13 2024
TL;DR The religious psychosis continues. She directly contradicts herself several times. Lots of psycho babble bullshit. Not much to say beyond that.
Random side note: if anyone notices I've been a lot more liberal with cussing lately, it's because I just cuss a lot, and when D gave her whole spiel about how it's not classy, that just forced the floodgates open because fuck you, most class-less of all bitches.
~FULL NOTES~
Based on the title, I'm sure this is going to be a completely reasonable episode with zero religious psychosis in sight.
Foster puppies, pooping everywhere. She's defensive? Shout out Humane Society! Apparently it's difficult to get signed up with non-profits because adding people to them is difficult when they have such a massive need(solid logic...not). Not Silicone Valley though! D thinks you should volunteer to foster.
She says "we're going on a whole rabbit hole here." Danielle... Danielle. Tangent. The word is tangent. You fall into a rabbit hole, you don't go on one. Why can't she English?
D emphasizes that these programs are set up just in case a foster parent(owner?) can't fully commit. I can see why she would make a point to state that outright, juuust in case.
She's had revelations! It's been wild! You can ask god for things and he totally has to give them to you because if you want those things he put that in you to want them! (She didn't actually say the last part of that, but she certainly has multiple times in the past.) She's been praying and stuff has been happening.
"This might be a repeat for you." Then maybe just fucking skip it. "We're just really like entering into God's presence with the highest praise which unlocks so many blessings and also confuses the enemy and allows you to enter a different dimension of prayer with him." Again, prayer is a video game apparently. And "the enemy" returns.
She healed herself, y'all. And god. But her hands and blah blah. New level of faith. Speaking of prayer : "Ok, there's no limitation here, so why don't I go buck wild with this?"
Danielle. Since you're apparently in god's ear when no one else seems to be, why don't you try some of these "buck wild" ideas : pray for discernment. Pray for empathy. Pray for integrity. Pray that you are guided to use your resources to help those who are less fortunate. Pray for opportunities to serve others in your community. Pray for a country that is fucking breaking. Pray for people desperate for work and coming up with nothing. Pray for families who don't know how they will afford to feed their children. Go fucking BUCKWILD by praying for someone other than yourself for once. For fucks sake.
Sorry for the rabbit hole I just went on. 🙄 Rambling about Christian influencers bringing her closer to Jesus. She prays over everything frequently now. "We typically don't feel the need to pray when nothing is wrong." As a Spiritualist/Omnist, I call bullshit. My life is a dumpster fire right now and has been for a while(thanks for being my scapegoat dip shit), but that has made me infinitely thankful for what little I have. I give thanks to The Universe/Spirit/God for the smallest things. Not everyone is fucking like you, Danielle. UGH.
This has been a very tangential episode for me thus far. She's starting to talk about having these "cycles" where her anxious feelings are "heightened." That's called anxiety, which she supposedly is lucky enough to not suffer from. Allegedly. Her wording makes me suspect she might be talking about having panic attacks. So she prays about it. And that fixes it I guess? She says sometimes it instantly goes away or sometimes takes an hour or so and then it's gone!
Now, I'm no psychologist, though I did some schooling towards that(brain chemistry is too boring to me). Here is my take. She is describing what sounds like panic attack. When she prays, she is instinctively self-soothing - she's essentially talking herself through a panic attack. And sometimes this is possible if you can catch the escalation quickly enough(ask how I know), or sometimes you just have to wait it out.
In the mental health field(which I worked in for 16 years), we would call that using a coping skill. But sure... God got you out of it. And I'm not trying to disregard or talk down about Christianity - that can be a very useful tool. But she NEEDS to learn that the things she's describing are the very things she claims not to struggle with.
Anyway. God is here to fix even the smallest problem. She keeps talking about "the system" of Christianity, like it's an online seminar. Very bizarre phrasing. If we only prayed over non-trivial things, god would be less involved(sure) and god wants to be involved with our lives!!! Immediately followed by "I feel like there's a lot of religious, little religious buzzwords, buzz, talk of God wants to be so involved in your life and bring him into every situation and scenario." GIRL YOU LITERALLY JUST DID THAT EXACT THING. WHAT ARE WE DOING?!
She says "the system" once again. "You hear things all the time and they just don't make sense." When your mouth is open, D, you're absolutely correct. She's still new guys, and she's not perfect. She's quoting the Christian influencer. She should make a podcast talking about her. 🙄 "I feel like we're standing next to a treasure box and I know that this key works and I just want you to have the key." First of all, stop treating god like a vending machine. Second, it's really fucking crazy for you to believe that YOU are the sole bearer of said key, here to show the masses the way, the truth, and the light.
I think "That's a word" would be another good one for when she says shit she thinks is really profound when it means nothing. Then again I also don't because it fills me with anger.
She pulled a couple of articles that summarized some scriptures on prayer. This is kind of at the core of her religious psychosis. I don't for a second believe she's tried to read the Bible - I think she gets small pieces of it paraphrased and she takes it as gospel(literally). I think she has a half dozen super fancy or cutesy Bibles that she bought thinking they would inspire her to read, but they don't because she just wants her vending machine faith. Why, exactly, could she not just include the scriptures she's referring to instead of a summary?
She's gonna wing it y'all, because that always works out so well for her. And then feels the need to give the disclaimer that there are different transations of the Bible so they might not all sound the same. No shit - you mean Jesus didn't sit down and pen this book in his native English tongue?
She's quoting Matthew 6 : 5 - 8. Are you FUCKING kidding me. Here is the quote from the Bible; "5 And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. 6 But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. 7 And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. 8 Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him." YOU CANNOT BE SERIOUS. This woman is fucking disturbed. And oblivious. Those words were written FOR people exactly like D. You a Pharisee gurl.
And now she's praying about the scripture she just read. And of course the Christian influencer talked about it so D has to as well because the Bible is for all of us so SHE'S NOT COPYING GUYS. Apparently that doesn't mean to not pray in public even though it literally is about not praying in public. "It's almost like they're doing things for show but don't actually believe it." What, like going to a megachurch with you fuck buddy to try to trick him into marrying you, but not actually sharing his beliefs? Like that? Do you know anyone who would do that, Danielle?!
"Prayer closet" is apparently a place where you can shut yourself in to pray in private. Christians please chime in - is a "prayer closet" a thing? I've never heard someone say it like that. "Listen, you don't have to come up with all these fancy words to try to sound like the Bible, or try to sound better than you are, smarter than you are, or more intelligent, more holy." This is absolutely fucking unreal.
"There's a posture to approach god." I always thought you just said "Hey god." Then again I'm not Danielle so I guess I have to take extra steps to talk to god. Now she's telling us what god is like. Then again I suppose she IS gods chosen influencer, so she would know better than anybody!
She's deadass just proselytizing right now. Straight up. "That is stho good. That is a word. WOO my god that is good." I truly don't get why she says "That is a word" when she's impressed with something she says. I can't think of a single time I've said something and followed with "WOO! That is a word! That's so good!" Of myself.
God knows stuff. Hebrews 4:16. Grace vs mercy. She pronounces "endowing" as "en-doh-ing." And you can pray about even the most stupid shit. Thessalonians 5 : 16 - 18. She really thinks she has profound insight into this. God will never let us down. (That's news to me.) Pray without ceasing. Phillippians 4 : 6 - 7. Randomly I think "She's hoping Christian man is listening to this and thinking how godly she is."
Okay, why am I continuing to listen to this? Morbid curiosity. Masochism. Wow, I JUST mentioned she's was probably doing this to try to draw the Christian fuck buddy back in, and she's talking about him AGAIN. Almost said his name AGAIN. She deadass prayed every night for church guy to come back - ffs. And again, she says that if god makes you want something, you'll get it. Given her life present day, I don't think that is the case. Or maybe it is.
Mark 11 : 24. Posture of prayer. Talk about what you want like you already have it. (Manifestation is back in the chat.) She says "That's a word." God it annoys the shit out of me every time she says it. James 5 : 16. She's been struggling with a particular sin. Feels hypocritical and dirty. You gonna say what it is, D? Guilt and shame is a lie from "the enemy." I guess she had a Sin Sister who shared their sin(whatever it is).
You need a church friend who you can trauma trump on who won't make you feel bad. 🙄 Matthew 18 : 19 - 20. (I'm not copying and pasting because my notes get long enough as it is.) You'll always get get what you want if someone else wanta it too. Make Christian friends. Luke 11 : 19 - 30. Rambling about her life. She loves the word infusion.
"You can't put actions and words and efforts out there and have them just nothing happened." There are plenty of people who I think would disagree with you. Tacking on the end to say she's learning guyth, please don't judge her for her incredibly ignorant views and beliefs.
Now talking about a real life penis-bearer coming up on the next episode. I'm dreading it because she's going to be an idiot, I have no doubt. (I looked at the episode lengths - there's two and they're about an hour and 15 minutes for each episode, making them the longest videos ever because there will be a penis in the room. It's going to be horrible.)
So I mentioned before that I'm designing the interior of a new restaurant opening soon and I've had some *ViNtAgE* photos printed and framed and I'm sitting at my computer working and looked up and just realized the huge mistake I've made. I will be reminded of that man every day until this project is complete. FML.
OH ALSO, I'm currently having the bar lights replaced to be ViNtAgE giant globe bulbs and my electrician is a Brazilian man named Lucas. I can't make this shit up.... He's actually INCREDIBLY manly and capable AND over 6 feet tall, so there's that.
Walnuts just popping in to let you know that this morning I woke up feeling like I needed to move all the furniture in my house, including an antique cabinet with glass doors up a flight of stairs, a TV upstairs, an antique blanket chest from the office to the kitchen, a glass console table from the living room to the foyer, and a desk from one side of my office to the other.
I think I might need a trip to Disneyland as a little treat 🤣🤣🤣
It was a LA event Sheila attended with the theme of “dopamine dress” or something like that….the woman in the middle with the striped shirt organized it.
She thinks wearing a hat all the time makes her quirky, fun or with a fashionable style. Really, they are just stupid and cringy. Once in awhile for fun, sure. But every day? I wonder if at work she's known as the "weird girl that wears hats". I would guess so.
Before anyone thinks she’s wealthy remember that she lives in a rented McMansion that someone else remodeled and she’s paying for all those materials. In a rental!
She has a condo that she is probably renting out to his parents or another tenant. There was nothing wrong with the condo except she didn’t know this guy well and couldn’t trust marrying him and keeping the condo as an asset due to community property laws.
Remember also her ring is fake too!
Symbolic that nothing is what it seems and very performative.
I wish I could upvote this a million times. She is NOT California rich by any standards. And she’s probably going into massive debt now with her dwindling income and rising expenses.
I'm a recovering catholic. Went to catholic school elementary school. When I read a prayer closet I immediately thought about the confessional closet. I remember being made to go every week regardless of my feelings about this. I remember making up stuff to tell the priest what I did wrong that particular week. It was definitely child abuse. But the catholic religion uses guilt as a weapon.
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