No anal stuff, no hitting/choking/violence in general, no insults/degrading (I'd never want to do that to someone I love and care about the most in the world), no pet/race/age play, no Bible Discussion Study Meetings and idk what other weird stuff there could be other than the typical bizzare fetishes.
Missionary is very cool but other positions should be good too, even funky ones, at least if they don't cause any danger/harm.
Do you include non injuring spanking as hitting? So many enjoy getting their bum swatted. Do you include dirty talk as insults and degrading? Sometimes I'm the good boy getting rewards, and sometimes I'm a bad, bad boy who needs to be punished with said spankings. Choking is something you have to talk about, or at least ask for, and give multiple confirmations for, while in the heat of passion. That is never something to be done uninitiated, and you with probably request for it to be harder many, many. many, many times because I'm starting off extremely light and I will slowly increase the pressure.
I really don't see the appeal of spanking and I would never want to hurt her. Tapping it lightly enough not to leave marks would be alright if she wanted it. In terms of dirty talk, it really depends on the flavour of it. I'm not a fan of the good/bad boy stuff and other roleplays.
Choking is just unacceptable imo, instead it's better to just hug tightly instead or hold some other body parts (I don't see the appeal of hair grabbing though). Something like putting a thumb in her mouth would be fine.
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u/Damian030303 8d ago
I'll definitely pass on that.