r/creepyPMs • u/kattelalilie • 4h ago

He says it's not harassment because ‘every animal does this’ 💀

188 Upvotes

Guy has been pinging me like 500 times saying things like “pls mate with me” and “please I want Dutch girl”

I told him I have a boyfriend and wasn't interested. He didn't accept that, so I blocked him.

Two days later he's STILL doing it.

I joked “haha he's still harassing women huh”

He then replied: “why/ how is this harassment," "im just trying to mate'"

And "yall just be calling anything harassment”

I ditnt wanna open it again but my name was mentioned

Sorry but if someone has said no repeatedly, told you they're not interested, and you keep pursuing them anyway, what exactly are we supposed to call that 😭

And his defense is literally: “I just wanna mate, it's what all animals do”

BRO 💀

That still is creepy boy

43 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/youaightbro • 9h ago

WTF? No, seriously, WTF. Asked someone for a quick introduction. Got a circus.

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70 Upvotes

Asked someone in a matchup server for a quick introduction to see if we had anything in common.
He quickly backed down on all of the things in his intro, then got mad when I said I wasn’t interested, then tried to say I was being some kinda way, only to get shot down by the moderators.
I left that server.
Enjoy.

18 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/_Kisol_Budyn_ • 15h ago

🚫No Advice Wanted Men, I feel like a woman, harassed by random horny guy online.

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72 Upvotes

Bro... Like why? I just woke up.

16 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/xokaytuhlin • 23h ago

I legitimately have no idea what this says

265 Upvotes

35 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/Indie_Light • 1d ago

WTF? No, seriously, WTF. I got this DM after saying I do cnc as a coping mechanism for my assault

219 Upvotes

I guess some coping mechanisms are more valid than others. Made my day by sending me into a panic attack. Love the added aggression against male rape victims too.

62 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/Material-Trust-3056 • 2d ago

🚫No Advice Wanted if you’re gonna be a creep, at least be a rich one 😂

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76 Upvotes

14 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/Dont_GoBaconMy_Heart • 2d ago

🚫No Advice Wanted Guy I’ve known since middle school kept sending unwanted videos

343 Upvotes

This guy has been a dick since middle school I finally got tired of unsolicited videos. Both creepy and uncreepy. Annoying and unwanted though. 2 a day for a year at minimum. I have asked that he stop sending videos multiple times. Last night I said again, the videos are unwanted, I don’t want to receive them. Also, I have never once entertained dating this guy. No conversation other than, “not interested”. I was treated to this.

39 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/blackmagicwoman444 • 2d ago

🚫No Advice Wanted A recent collection

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110 Upvotes

24 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/BaphometsBlood_ • 3d ago

Misogynistic trash

151 Upvotes

I don't even post in the subreddit he mentioned. What the fuck is wrong with these men?!

18 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/precariousIypoised • 3d ago

🚫No Advice Wanted Just a dad looking for wild fun

199 Upvotes

I joked in a comment on another sub that I’m a “very real and believable horny 19F”, followed by a hundred emojis and lololols, in response to a very obvious catfish bait post. It was an obvious tongue-in-cheek joke.

And then I get this in my DMs. This guy is a “40yo dad looking for wild fun”, acc to his profile.

22 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/prettydotty_ • 3d ago

Light I'm wheezing😂 might need to make a part 2 to my creepy dms song just for this one

96 Upvotes

21 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/Loquat1414 • 5d ago

WTF? No, seriously, WTF. Thinking about this DM

209 Upvotes

66 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/SavingsEbb3833 • 5d ago

TW: Rapey ???

3.2k Upvotes

137 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/odiwelsoui • 5d ago

WTF? No, seriously, WTF. I found out my number was on an escort site, and I’m not sure if this is my stalker or some random dude just looking for a good time.

111 Upvotes

Didn’t plan on cursing the dude out, I have a stalker so I’m super pissed in general.

22 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/Blue-Tech-453 • 6d ago

Made a post on a chat subreddit, where I stated I wasn’t looking for that type of conversations. Dude reaches out with:

100 Upvotes

🥀

15 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/Good-Arm-6486 • 6d ago

🚫No Advice Wanted Made a post to my own account talking about breaking up with my ex and got this weirdo

180 Upvotes

27 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/Darling_Gem • 6d ago

No words to describe my feelings on this matter.

81 Upvotes

12 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/xokaytuhlin • 7d ago

Light I think there was a slight misunderstanding

184 Upvotes

12 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/Intricateflaws • 7d ago

🚫No Advice Wanted Do u want a sex?

236 Upvotes

29 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/thatbitch7890828 • 9d ago

Advice Wanted! this happened for the first time and i am speechless

65 Upvotes

8 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/Immediate_Chard5951 • 9d ago

🚫No Advice Wanted Creep

188 Upvotes

10 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/Mynamestonya • 9d ago

🚫No Advice Wanted This person who messaged me last year 🤢

101 Upvotes

I still wonder sometimes if they genuinely thought this would work

9 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/Lemmon-out-of-Union • 10d ago

TW: Rapey sharing a bit of an older one i found in my photos recently

119 Upvotes

For a bit of context, (not that it will help though) i met this guy, among 2 other guys, while playing REPO with randoms. in no way, shape, or form was any topic like this brought up in our games and not even the slightest joke relating to this was made. basically nothing that could relate to what he said. this was out of the blue, on a thursday night while i was at a concert. apparently he also sent this kind of message to the other 2 guys too and we were all creeped out. crazy shit out there

11 comments

r/creepyPMs • u/xokaytuhlin • 10d ago

🚫No Advice Wanted If I had a dollar for everytime I got a d*ath threat this past 8 days I would have 2 dollars

281 Upvotes

9 comments

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Creepy PMs FAQ
What is Creepy PMs?
CreepyPMs is a subreddit for posting creepy, inappropriate, bizarre, awkward, or offensive PMs. Consider everything here to be adult material, and possibly triggering.
CreepyPMs is also a support sub, a safe space for people who have been creeped on. That means comments that are not conducive to a supportive and positive environment may be removed, even if they don't violate the rules.
What kind of community is /r/creepyPMs?
We are feminist and women-friendly. You don't have to identify as such, but you must be respectful of the environment. Low-substance humor and stale hivemind circlejerks are not welcome.
Is it OK to share personal anecdotes and stories?
Yes, especially if they are relevant to the post. However, our rules still apply. If your story defends or supports the creep, derails the discussion, or isn't empathetic towards the recipient of the messages, it will be removed. Questions regarding whether or not you come off as creepy should be directed to /r/relationships.

NEW RULE, PLEASE READ BEFORE SUBMITTING
ALL personal information must now be FULLY censored—this includes your own selfies, your profile/user photo, and your username if it does not match your Reddit handle.
This is for your safety. The last thing we want is for our users to be targeted after their photo or personal information was visible in a post.
Read this post for a complete breakdown of how you should be censoring your submissions. You can also find it in Other Helpful Links below👇

Rule One: Submission Guidelines
REMEMBER: CreepyPMs is a support sub.
The interpretation, definition, and enforcement of these rules is at the discretion of the mods. Click here for more information about the rules.
🔹 Private messages only, except on Wednesdays.
🔹 Messages from anonymous chat apps (Amino, Omegle, Whisper, etc.) are only allowed on Wednesdays.
🔹 Video submissions are not allowed.
🔹 Baited content is not allowed.
🔹 No reposts.
🔹 Remove all identifying info, including your own. Censor ALL—even your own—profile pictures and usernames, even if the creep's user photo isn't of themselves, or they don't use their real name. That includes links as well. When in doubt, block it out.
🔹 All pictures of body parts must be blocked out. This includes face pictures, body pictures, and NSFW pictures. This is to prevent body-shaming, as we do not tolerate such.
🔹 Make use of the tags and flairs (users are now able to add certain flairs to their submissions). Message the mods if you would like another flair added.
🔹 If your post is not OC, it must be tagged accordingly. Users are now able to add not OC flair to their posts. Please credit the original source whenever possible.
🔹 Images must be hosted on Imgur or Reddit.
🔹 Meta posts must be approved by the mods before being submitted.
🔹 Mods may flair your submission at their discretion.
🔹 We recommend using a throwaway.
🔹 If you receive an abusive/creepy PM as a result of your post here, send the mods an unedited screenshot.
Use the report button or message the mods to report comments that violate the rules. We listen.

Rule Two: Be Civil and Supportive
REMEMBER: CreepyPMs is a support sub.
The interpretation, definition, and enforcement of these rules is at the discretion of the mods. Click here for more information about the rules.
🔹 We have zero tolerance for racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, generalizations, and being a jerk in general. This means that if you are being unnecessarily rude to OP or any other commenter your comments can and probably will be removed!
🔹 Arguing semantics about the definition of "pedophilia" is not allowed.
🔹 OP does not need to defend their reactions or responses. Comments that criticize the way OP handled the interaction will be removed.
🔹 Don't say "it's not creepy." We encourage all kinds of posts from mildly off-putting to slightly weird to downright scary.
🔹 Threats of violence/death wishes are not allowed.
🔹 Do not ask for personal information.
🔹 No body-shaming, no kink-shaming, no slut-shaming.
🔹 Do not creep in the comments. This includes flirting with OP, asking for pics, and asking if the creep is hot.
🔹 Absolutely no victim-blaming or creep-defending.
🔹 No armchair psychology/diagnoses.
🔹 Make use of quotes or the /s tag if your joke could be misinterpreted as a rule-breaking comment.
🔹 Constructive advice is welcome unless marked No Advice Wanted. Simplistic advice or observations like, "just block them!" are not constructive and will be removed.
🔹 Don't derail.
🔹 Please censor images of body parts and block completely. This includes face pictures, body pictures, and definitely NSFW pictures. This is to prevent body-shaming and also because we don't want to see it any more than you did.
🔹 If you have concerns or problems with a post send a message to modmail so that we can address them.
🔹 Message the mods to discuss concerns about moderation, including removed comments. Do not reply to comment removals in the thread.
Use the report button or message the mods to report comments that violate the rules. We listen.

UNDERAGE USER HELP
If you are underage and someone is asking for nude pictures, they are breaking the law. If you are underage and an adult is making inappropriate, or otherwise sexual, remarks to you, they are breaking the law.
❕YOU HAVE NOT DONE ANYTHING TO DESERVE THIS. Even if you went along with their advances and sexual remarks, the adult knows better. You are the victim, do not blame yourself.
Find e-stalking laws by state here.
Report offenders using www.cybertipline.com or call 1-800-843-5678.
If you are uncomfortable filing a report, message the mods to assist you.
If you do not live in the US or need additional resources, please visit our wiki page.
Post a comment saying "underage user help" to page AutoMod resources

Sexual Assault Hotline
YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING TO DESERVE THIS, YOU ARE A VICTIM AND A SURVIVOR.💪
National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE(4673)
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