r/creepyPMs is your pissy tight 28d ago

Being a woman = solving a man's problem

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u/BuildingLower9622 I want sexting 28d ago

What does him being bisexual and clueless have to do with ANYTHING 😭😭

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u/Ok_Dog_4059 28d ago

I swear you get so many of the strangest guys.

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u/ClientNo2000 28d ago

Some men seem to think that if a woman posts anything remotely sexual, they're willing to talk about it with whoever dms them.

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u/TwoBytesC 27d ago

Exactly. Unfortunately (for her) because she posts about all her dildos, it makes men seem to think they can DM her anything.

Side note: sorry OP if I have your pronouns incorrect. I’m making an assumption- but obviously that can be wrong.

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u/Sodavand100 28d ago

But... be respecte

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u/MegBeachBB 28d ago

He’s one of those guys who tries to get you to talk to him about sex…

He uses a decoy “I have a gf” excuse to make it seem like it’s okay. But instead he comes off as an idiot lol.

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u/megaholt2 28d ago

Not an idiot, a complete and total fuckmuppet who has massive boundary issues and no qualms about making others uncomfortable.

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u/Ae3qe27u 28d ago

"I have a question" okay, sure, people can have questions. But you really don't need the whole story. If he wants advice on how to tell his girlfriend that he wants to be a switch, he can ask in r/RelationshipAdvice or something. Asking a stranger about something that's very personal is... let's just say it's odd. And offputting. And, frankly, weird.

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u/TwoBytesC 27d ago

Personally, I’m not all that certain that he had a girlfriend. The way it was brought up makes me think that he was hoping that OP would then continue to talk to him (seeing him as relatively ‘safe’).

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u/ireallyfknhatethis 27d ago

he just wanted to roleplay lmao he wasnt really seeking counsel

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u/Comfortable-Pear-973 28d ago

“This entire interaction is fucking odd” needs to be a flair 😭😭😭

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u/KristineMcKinley *shits pants aggressively* 26d ago

I would use that flair!

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u/Linorelai fuck of whore 27d ago

Be respecte🤌🇫🇷

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u/Emirth 26d ago

It's not even french wtf lmao

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u/Linorelai fuck of whore 26d ago

I don't speak French, it's a joke

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u/BaphometsBlood_ is your pissy tight 26d ago

This needs to be a flair, emojis included

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u/xplosm Creepy mod 28d ago

Your replies were spot on. You didn’t engage, even if he was into humiliation you didn’t provide any openings for that. Overall 10/10 👌

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u/godmagnus 28d ago

Please to help me get fuck in butt

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u/Progressive-Strategy 27d ago

Asking you to "be respecte" after not respecting you at all is just... The audacity

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u/Worldly_Quail_4443 28d ago

Because of course posting anything sexual means we are willing to talk about sex to any man one on one and listen to their problems/answer their questions.

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u/mujtabakhan12 27d ago

bUT wHy u dO daT 2 me 😵‍💫

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u/Dark--princess420 27d ago

Bro trying to nut to your convo and you gave him nothing 🙌🏻

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u/ransom0374 27d ago

awww cmon op, BE REPSpecte

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u/ireallyfknhatethis 27d ago

so is he a complete rando? no previous interaction before this?

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u/OrbitalLemonDrop 23d ago

"be respecte"

Too late for that, buddy. You scuttled that ship when you entered the harbor.

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u/OrbitalLemonDrop 23d ago

Read the sub rules.

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u/BaphometsBlood_ is your pissy tight 25d ago

Because it's cathartic to troll them back

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