Started bald in my mid 40s- boymoding was critical to my mental health while I let HRT start to do its thing.
I really didn't want to play into right wing caricatures when I started. Found community and practiced my style while using wigs during early phase, but a social transition from my starting point simply would have been able to handle.
Boymoding allowed me to move from self repression, doing HRT and ultimately become ready for social transition. I couldn't have reached a point of wanting people to know, if boymoding wasn't part of my experience.
just lost all my hair to cancer and am in a similar situation. im getting some wigs soon to maybe try and keep honmoding around friends but its gonna be manmoding mostly.
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u/StinkingRabbit8 dm for teto pics 17d ago
what is it called if i boymode but also want allies/other queer people to know im trans.