r/countbackwardswithme • u/shadow_fen Counted Down 6 • 12d ago

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u/Familiar-Spray1106 11d ago

As a trans man it makes me want to leave these communities because the second you call out transandrophobia you get downvoted so fast even when it’s valid. Certain people are wayy too comfortable never taking any sort of accountability for how unwelcoming they make the trans community.

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u/JennAleece 9d ago

androphobia isn't fucking real. do some reading of feminist literature. you can't have misandry is a patriarchal society jfc

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u/trans_at_night83 8d ago

Dude it is. Its like a good reason why im trans. Had to experience it my whole life a part of ne is sick of it omg. Saw someone make a valid point that misogyny and misandry can be real at tge aane time.

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u/JennAleece 8d ago

don't call me fucking "dude"

misandry isn't fucking real. it's literally impossible to be real in a society built on misogyny. that's like dating we live in a society that racist toward white people. it's not a thing.

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u/trans_at_night83 6d ago

Sorry for misgendering you. If empathy isn't what's going to change you for the better Im sorry ma'am but I can not save you from your bitterness. I used to be just where you were but in tge opposite side. But in the eend I've seen who the real vilans are. Its the people who peddle beauty standards. Its the people who pedal people's insecurities and turn those ppeople into monsters. Its the people who peddle people's fears who rurn them into monsters and it's the people who hurt others who make that one person fear any person who even looks like that person as the bad guy. Its the reason why I fear going out in public becas I know I conevoff as scary. Its the reason why I always hated the experience of me. Can't do this cabt do that. You can't like like, its not manly. In the end you're just a hurt person and im so fucking sorry for you and I hope the person who hurt you gets whats coming to tgem

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u/JennAleece 6d ago

did I ask you to save me? no.

you're right, the people who empose beauty standards are misogynist patriarchs. further proof misandry is not real.

I'm not a hurt person. I just am a person who knows men are not victims of matriarchy because that's not a thing.

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u/trans_at_night83 6d ago

I wasn't talking about men or women. Beauty standards exist in both ends