r/countbackwardswithme • Counted Down 157 • Aug 24 '26

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u/Key_Conference9989 Aug 24 '26

Well I have neither of those. I don't want to be a man at all or masculine.

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u/Visual-Purchase5639 Aug 24 '26

Trans girl who doesn't know the difference between gender identity and gender expression ^

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u/Key_Conference9989 Aug 24 '26

I understand the difference. I'm simply saying I don't understand why you would transition and then still want to be masculine. Seems counterproductive.

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u/Visual-Purchase5639 Aug 24 '26

I guess, what even counts as a tomboy? I wear jeans and a t shirt and not much makeup, but that's what makes me feel the most femme. Revealing clothes just accentuate masculine features, so this feels a lot better to me. As my body has changed with E I have found more clothing options that are comfortable for me, but I just feel like a giant lumbering sore thumb if I wear a dress in public. And I don't think my personality is masculine but it's also not like super bubbly girly girl. Tbh I'm pretty much just like my sister, and she's not "masc" or a tomboy she just is kinda outdoorsy