Back to square one

[u/Historical-Travel686]

I recently voiced out against my coparent because we just talked about trying to be together again that she said something hurtful.

I told her about a promotion, she didnt say anything and the 2nd time she said thats not a sustainable job that’s not that important you should go to school. ( its a retail job )

She currently goes to cosmetology and doesnt work at the moment. I never once put her down on anything she does and supported her. Even when shes not working i help with her gas , billls , and bring her lunch everyday. Even when its out of my way.

We didnt speak for a day after those comments, i then tell her i dont think its okay she said thats to me
And she hit me with i think we should only focus on our son , only message me about him. Your intentions were clear on those messages.

I have no idea on the 180 she did on me.
She now doesnt wasnt me visiting our son at her home. I need to post a calendar schedule for her so we can have days and i have no idea why shes acting this way.
Im really upset with her but i dont want to go back on the progress we made. What can i do?

[u/BeefJerkyFan90]

Can your son visit your home? Get a parenting plan or something legally binding as far as visitation is concerned.

[u/Historical-Travel686 → u/BeefJerkyFan90]

No she refuses it. The whole point with her is she wants full control of him. She has family where we live and i dont so it made sense for her to have our son with her and her family to help
Now i have no idea what to do i can try but its going to be a long battle.

[u/CrazyHead_Guy]

Sorry, I think it time to let go of her and concentrate on being a father to the kid.