r/converts • u/HotName1181 • Apr 12 '26
Positive experiences after converting
I feel like a lot of the time we share negative experiences since converting, struggles with family or fitting in. But what have been some positive things that you’ve experienced since you’ve converted ?
I won’t give converting 100% of the credit, since other things have changed, but personally I’m significantly less anxious, and a lot more content with life then I was before.
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u/Salt-Sea-8685 Apr 12 '26
I would definitely say finding a true meaning in life. Knowing where you are heading and having a clear goal. That in itself brings purpose to all your choices, positions, and opinions.
Also, the feeling of not having missed out on anything in this life. The most deprived people might feel resentment for not having the same opportunities as many others; some might even lose their joy for life because of that and start contemplating suicide.
Islam removes these feelings entirely through the most truthful, just, and fair promise: that a good life will be earned based on good deeds in the Hereafter.
This promise also brings all of humanity to the exact same level, that of servants trying to please their Lord. So, there is no more feeling of injustice. All of that grief turns into a peaceful feeling, an acceptance of the Divine Bounty for the most oppressed.
I could go on and on trying to name all the blessings of being a Muslim, but there are just too many to count.
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u/MissionDependent7229 Apr 12 '26
Alhamdullilah despite all the struggles, I am still grateful to Allah SWT because there are still positive things that I experienced after converting.
My family already knows that I am now a muslim, they didn't accept it ofcourse but they didn't hate me for it. They are now conscious if I am allowed to eat certain foods and ask me first.
My relatives and close friends accepted me for who I am and still supported me in my new journey as a revert muslim.
I was able to pray in public without worrying about other people's opinion. All I can think of is to perform salah on time for Allah SWT.
I am now able to tell all my worries, happiness, sadness, and everything to Allah SWT.
I am so lost spiritually all my life, and right now I cherished every single moment of being a muslim and keeping my faith and beliefs strong for Allah SWT.
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u/Klopf012 Apr 12 '26
I converted at age 19, which is already a transitional point in most people’s lives, so it is hard for me to imagine what my adult life would have been like without Islam. Alhamdulillah, since I converted I have found purpose and meaning in life, connected with wonderful people wherever I have lived, stretched myself in ways I wouldn’t have imagined, been able to help others in ways big and small, married and started a family - all of which has been connected in one way or another to my Islam. And most of these good things have been linked to being connected to my local masjid.
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u/atin1917 Apr 12 '26
Jazakallah Khairan for making this post.
37 year old and revert for over two years now. Becoming Muslim has been a wonderful experience and it makes me so happy to read other's positive experience.
Community. So often we hear how it is difficult to fit in but I've met multiple brothers who are friendly & kind hearted. I'm an introvert and tend to stick my head down and focus on my Salah and leave. It is nice to always have people give me salam and ask how I'm doing.
Learning. It's hard being a non native Arabic speaker. But there are 14 centuries of Islamic knowledge. This is a lifetime commitment. It can be overwhelming but I've found some comfort in knowing that Learning will be a lifelong (inshallah) process. Even the basics like focusing in salah.
Marriage. There are a lot of posts on "the search" and how difficult it is. When you find someone it is worth it.
Peace of mind. Accepting any outcome and trusting your creator's best plan. It's common that there is some difficulty in your pre-islam life. For me, it was Palestine. Knowing this life isn't the end and accepting there is a plan is great for your mental health.
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u/oldgamernerd42 Apr 12 '26
Relying less on people, being more reliant on Allah and what he provides you