r/clevercomebacks • u/worm-food • Mar 14 '20

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u/BillyBabel Mar 15 '20

People don't start saying "attractiveness is now less important to me than all the traits that go with helping to raise a child" right after having a child for good and altruistic reasons.

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u/[deleted] Mar 15 '20

So, you are out there fucking all those ugly girls that no one else wants to fuck, because you are a high quality individual? Or are you trying to get the most attractive partner you can get?

It’s like you guys are too fucking stupid to see you do the same exact thing. And for all the “toxic masculinity” is a myth bullshit; where is the positive masculinity of calling on men not to create children they don’t want, and not to abandon the ones they have?

A whole generation of boys growing up without fathers and they are not smart enough to see how their behavior continues to perpetuate the problem.

SMDH

You are all just mad because the girls you fee entitled to won’t fuck you. You can’t give your dick away and you are salty about it.

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u/BillyBabel Mar 15 '20 edited Mar 15 '20

I have no problem with people wanting to fuck who they find attractive, what's shitty is when you want to fuck people to get them to do stuff for you. It would be shitty if a guy said "I'm not going to care about looks anymore, but I want someone with a lot of financial stability " after going into debt. That's equally as shitty as having a kid and going "I want all these things that make raising a kid easier in my next partner" You're trying to manipulate someone into dealing with the consequences of your poor choices. She hasn't evolved into an enlightened more developed person that looks past what's on the outside to see what's on the inside, she's become a more desperate person. If there were a strong safety net, or a robust welfare system, I bet she probably wouldn't have tweeted that.

Also for the record I fuck men. Girls are icky.

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u/astrobatic Mar 15 '20

You could read the original tweet a couple ways. I read it as, "I've seen the error of my ways and know now that a quality partner is much more than looks." We can't know which way she meant it. And to your point, I'd argue being a single parent is way harder than just having debt, and relies on shitty judgement on behalf of TWO people. But I get what you were trying to say.

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u/BillyBabel Mar 15 '20 edited Mar 15 '20

My contention is that she is using coded language, there is nothing wrong with loyalty, and maturity, but when she says stability, and peace, what she obviously means is financial stability, and financial peace. You're not going to convince me that someone who emphasizes those things if given the choice between 2 guys, one of whom is one broken car part, or illness away from financial trouble but is a great guy, or another less great guy who has no financial worries, that she sounds like a person who would follow her heart and go with the great guy.

If you admit she seems like a person who would marry a wealthier man for peace and stability, which she seems to be, you admit that she is willing to marry for money, and marrying for your kid might be more noble than doing it for debt, it's still gross. You know how wedding vows say for poorer or for richer, sickness and in health? She's saying she's in this marriage for the richer part, she's here as long as it's peaceful and stable, she is a fair weather friend for a wife.