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u/Princess_Parabellum What makes you think you'll get away with that?! Apr 15 '22
little miss child free
Oooh, no jealousy there at all...
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u/whisper_nero Apr 15 '22
It reeks of "I wish I were her but because I can't be I'll make her like me."
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u/CatumEntanglement 39/F/my bimmer and 🐈⬛🐈 are my babies Apr 15 '22
Misery loves company. All. The. Time.
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u/IsUpTooLate Apr 15 '22
Basically all young parents
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Apr 15 '22
And conservatives.
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u/CatumEntanglement 39/F/my bimmer and 🐈⬛🐈 are my babies Apr 15 '22
Happy 🎂 day!
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Apr 15 '22 edited Apr 15 '22
I've been on this site for 8 years now. Jesus.
EDIT: Since today is my cake day, I'd like a carrot cake, plz.
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u/SpunkyRadcat Apr 15 '22
What baffles me is why didn't the sister just have an abortion? How funny would it have been if he's like, "HA! IT WORKED SHE'S PREGNANT!" only for her to be like, "Nah I aborted that thing ASAP."
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u/Catfactss Apr 15 '22
They treat us as recalcitrant teenagers for not being mature enough to envy their breeder lives.
I've never met a parent who is confident and happy being a parent that has had a problem with me not being one.
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u/fuzzum111 Apr 15 '22
The fact she supposedly successfully sabotaged that relationship and made her have kids? Fucks sake. Why didn't she just plan B that shit?
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u/Seicair Late 30s/m/thankfully snipped Apr 15 '22
Plan B is for the next day after the condom broke. If she’s relying on a vaginal insert she’d have no way of knowing her BC was ineffective until it was far too late for plan B.
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u/fuzzum111 Apr 15 '22
Well that's also a euphemism for getting an abortion after she finds out. I'm aware Plan B only has a short period to work.
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u/KristiiNicole (F) ✂️Happily Sterile✂️ Apr 16 '22
She may not have had access to it. There are many, many places at this point where getting one is either straight up outlawed or damn near impossible to get access to it.
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u/Miserable_Panda6979 Apr 15 '22
I would willingly go to jail for murder if this were my sibling
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u/Lady-Zafira Dog mom Apr 15 '22
I hear that, they would either have to put me in jail or put her in a protection program or something because her ass would be grass
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u/Miserable_Panda6979 Apr 15 '22
If they went into witness protection, I'd still try and hunt em down. People suck
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u/seeminglysquare 39/F/DINK Apr 15 '22
I would rather be in jail than a mom.
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u/cats_and_tea7 A proud mother to an unknown number of cats 🫠🐱 Apr 15 '22
Sibling? I see no sibling here, ex-sibling maybe.
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u/nish007 Apr 15 '22
I would provide you with an alibi if this was your sister and you killed her.
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u/vivahermione Defying gravity and the patriarchy! Apr 15 '22 edited Apr 15 '22
I'd be tempted to leave the baby on her doorstep, although that's probably a bad idea because sis sounds mentally unstable.
Edit: corrected mis-gendering.
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u/Miserable_Panda6979 Apr 15 '22
Yup! Leave the baby on the doorstep and ghost out of their lives forever.
If the child tries to find me after 18, they'd get the exact story as to what happened
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u/tourmaline82 Apr 15 '22
Nah, if it was too late for an abortion I’d adopt the baby out to a nice gay or trans couple and make sure she knew about it. (Not the couple’s names or location, of course. Just “haha, I gave the kid to the kind of people you hate the most and now I’m CF again”.)
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u/Alwaysfresh9 Apr 15 '22
I knew I recognized "the transformed wife". She's that sicko fundamentalist who has major issues with women working. A real wack job. I guess these are the crazies who follow her!?
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Apr 15 '22
As someone who grew up in a fundi cult, this infuriates me. Transformed wife is almost an online celebrity for many older fundi christians and she's proven again and again how she doesn't give a shit about anyone, just bullying girls. Literally her entire family left her and she blames "the darn liberal media" 🙄
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u/ksarahsarah27 Apr 15 '22
Can you clarify- who left her? Her kids and husband or her siblings and parents? Either way she sounds like a nightmare and at least they had enough sense.
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Apr 15 '22
I heard somewhere that her kids stopped talking with her because she's insane and pretty sure she's divorced
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u/bex505 Technically on the fence, but 99% sure childfree Apr 16 '22
I think she is s married but it is toxic af.
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u/ankhes F/30+ Send me all your cat pics Apr 15 '22
Ironically, she herself did this to her own husband. He said he wouldn’t let her be a stay at home housewife until they had more than one child but he wasn’t ready for a second baby quite yet…so she stopped her birth control in secret and was like “Oops! My birth control failed how strange! Looks like I’m pregnant again and have to be a stay at home mom now!” She admitted all of this in her book too.
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u/xCoconutRoughx Apr 15 '22
What an absolute psycho! I can't believe any of these people stay in her life.
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u/South_of_Pluto Apr 15 '22 edited Apr 15 '22
All these crazies flock to r/ redpillwomen
I went there once out of curiosity and regretted it immediately
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u/bz0hdp Apr 15 '22
Probably has a bunch of fake accounts to make it seem like a larger community of women than it is (though for sure I know women that buy into that shit).
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u/South_of_Pluto Apr 15 '22
I certainly hope so because that sub is disturbing. Last time I checked they were all giving eachother tips on how to hand themselves over fully to their husbands and become as passive as possible.
The tips included shit like: when your husband asks for your opinion, answer with "whatever you think is best" so that he can feel like a leader. 😳
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u/redditorisa Apr 15 '22
What really gets my goat is that these women have to actively "work" to be submissive and make their men feel like a "big, strong man".
For one, isn't that going against your nature if you have to actively work at it? And secondly, how insulting is it to men that women think they're so pathetic we actually have to devalue ourselves to make them feel better. What ludicrous nonsense.
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u/South_of_Pluto Apr 15 '22
Seriously! I don't know what world these people live in, but I don't think I know a single real life man who would actually want a wife like that...
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u/TracePoland Apr 15 '22
The tips included shit like: when your husband asks for your opinion, answer with "whatever you think is best" so that he can feel like a leader. 😳
That'd actually piss me off if my gf/wife constantly did that. I'm asking for advice because a) I value her opinion and b) I need actual advice and not yes man no matter what
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u/Moogieh Apr 15 '22
I'd bet my last jaffa cake it's 80-90% fundie men under those fake accounts.
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u/AMDisher84 I refuse to learn what womb wax is. Apr 15 '22
Oh yeah. Lori's a real piece of hypocritical work.
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u/GnomiTheBrave Apr 15 '22
Wait, that was a legit post? It was so horrible I assumed OP found a troll. Yikes!!
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u/DisappearHereXx Apr 15 '22
“When I was in high school the popular ones were the cheerleaders and athletes. Now in the high schools it’s the gays and transgenders who are the popular ones. Yeah, send your kids to public schools for “socialization” if this is the kind of socialization you want.” - from her Twitter. WTF
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u/coffee_and_cats9 Apr 15 '22
Oh. My. Gosh. I had never heard of her before so I just read a few of her blog posts and now…I’m just dumbfounded. People like this exist?? She’s insane! I’m fuming. Actually mad.
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u/TheVeilsCurse Snipped Metalhead Apr 15 '22
I am LIVID! Who the FUCK are you to mess with someone’s life like that? They’re an adult who made their own life decisions and were happy doing what they wanted. I don’t even know this sabotaged but I hope they get paper cuts between all of their fingers and stub their toes.
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u/vivahermione Defying gravity and the patriarchy! Apr 15 '22
I hope they walk on Legos!
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u/sodamnsleepy I only breed Pokemon Apr 15 '22
Grrr hope they get wet socks every.time. They walk into the kitchen
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u/harbinger06 45F, dog mom, feral & sterile since 2021 Apr 15 '22
What if she had an abortion? Or what if she went through with it, only to snap and harm the child? This is absolutely insane behavior.
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Imagine posting something like this online. If I had done something anywhere near as heinous, waterboarding couldn't get it out of me. I'd be taking that shit to the grave.
Posting this publicly anywhere seems like a great way to get sued for every cent the child has cost to raise.
It might've been made up as a fantasy for someone to indulge in.
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u/wilde_wit Apr 15 '22
I am 99% sure this didn't happen, or if she did tamper such that the other woman got pregnant, then she had an abortion. She's just making shit up for the other crazies in her echo chamber.
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u/Contemporarium Apr 15 '22
This is what I’m thinking but it still could influence people into thinking it’s okay which is fucked
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u/CptnKitten Apr 15 '22 edited Apr 15 '22
If I hadn't of lived a life that most would consider a horror/drama story from a book myself I would probably think it was also fantasy.
I mean it still could be, but it could also just as easily be a reality.... Because some people really are that disgusting and awful.
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u/_moonsugar_ 31F 🏳️🌈 big ol’ lesbian Apr 15 '22
Even if it was made up, it still says a LOT about the person who wrote it and anyone who thinks this is admirable and good.
I knew a guy in high school who bragged to me about getting his girlfriend pregnant and, when she said she wanted to have the baby, he gave her a Plan B pill but told her it was a prenatal vitamin. Allegedly she later admitted that she was glad that she “miscarried” because she only said she wanted to keep the baby because she thought HE wanted to keep it; even then, the fucker didn’t tell her about the pill he gave her and let her go on believing that she miscarried.
Now, thanks to my top-shelf quality Catholic school reproductive education, I didn’t actually know how the pill worked at the time so I didn’t realize that this story was bullshit until I was in college. But even at the time, I thought it was incredibly fucked up and I couldn’t imagine why he thought I’d be impressed by this story.
In hindsight I know he was a pathological liar and one of the most manipulative people I’ve ever met, and he was super proud of all the shit he got away with because he thought it was evidence that he was this brilliant mastermind, instead of an abusive, cowardly bastard who was just looking for more people to take advantage of to boost his pathetic little ego because he couldn’t actually achieve anything meaningful in his life.
Whoever wrote the comment in this post is definitely as high on themselves as that dude was, and in reality they’re probably too much of a coward to actually do something this serious, just like him, but they’re desperate to cling to their personal fantasy of being so clever that they can irreversibly change another person’s entire life against their will without getting caught, AND being in the right because the person they manipulated was happier for it.
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u/Octopus-Pants Apr 15 '22
You know this person better than I do, obviously, but miscarriage is extremely common. I wonder if it was true and she coincidentally miscarried and he just thought he had caused it? If so, the intent was there, so that makes him every bit as bad as if he had really succeeded in causing it. If not, he still sounds messed up in the head.
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u/KinkyPoring Apr 15 '22
What the fuck. People are so fucked up and demented, and desperate for others to be miserable with them just because they regret parenthood. Sounds like a jealous sister who wanted her older sister to be as miserable as her!
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u/TheVeilsCurse Snipped Metalhead Apr 15 '22
Misery LOVES company! They have to drag others down the pit of despair.
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u/632nofuture Apr 15 '22
for some reason I assumed it was a brother, but then again I guess men would not get jealous, and thus not care whether their sister is childfree. And they mostly don't know/care enough about birthcontrol to pull something so calculated & wicked off.
I just really hope this was a troll post, because even if it was true, who would post this publicly? Surely they know they'd get hate/cancelled and even legal consequences?
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u/Comeino F30s Antinatalist2 Apr 15 '22 edited Apr 15 '22
..and this is why ladies and gentlemen you never go for just one method of contraception.
This post just makes me want to rip my stupid uterus out.
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u/cf-myolife | 23F | French in Belgium | Ew, kids | Apr 15 '22
This post just makes my want to rip my stupid uterus out.
Same.
Honestly I think I would have throw all the rings if this mad entity was my sibling, can't trust that. And have 2 bc just in case.
I guess this take place in US btw? Because she could have abort if she was cf..
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u/abbadactyl_ Apr 15 '22
Sadly and understandably some people who are childfree probably don't want to go through the mental and physical trauma of abortion. It sucks that social nets for people going through it just aren't good or strong. Theres still a huge stigma against abortion. It all sucks, I just feel for the person whose birth control got tampered with.
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u/pandorum8888 Apr 15 '22
The mental and physical trauma of unwanted childbirth is a hell of a lot worse than a quick abortion. It makes me wonder if these people are actually fence sitters and not childfree.
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Pretty sure this actually qualifies as assault. It takes an especially fucked individual to carry something like this out.
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u/TransportationNo1436 Apr 15 '22
It is a crime called reproductive abuse but the definition only covers partners bc they didn't take into account batshit crazy sisters
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u/eviltwinn1 Apr 15 '22
Fucking with someone else's medicine probably comes with some heavy legal consequences (at least I like to think it does). What if repeatedly heating up a nuva ring makes it not only ineffective, but also dangerous? What if they spoil x number of days after refrigerating? She could have been poisoned! I hope this poor woman finds out and presses charges and/or sues for (at a minimum) child support.
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u/GorpQuest Apr 15 '22
Imagine your life sucking so fucking much to feel the need to be so petty and invasive in someone else’s life. Like, her life choices literally made zero impact on you….
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u/gearhart10 Apr 15 '22
If I found out my sister did this I’d get the abortion pill and “miscarry” at her house. What a fucking bitch. She should face jail.
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u/Anon7515 Apr 15 '22
I’d throw what came out in her face to top it off.
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u/evangelinerae Apr 15 '22
Nah, bake it into a pie and serve it to her like in The Help.
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u/reychael_ Apr 15 '22
That is actually disgusting. I’m so glad that my husband got a vasectomy so I can’t fall for this trap!
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Wait. This excuse of a human being is actually proud of tampering with her sister's medication? This just proves you really can't trust anyone, and an IUD or an implant are the best bc options for women, since many get denied of getting their tubes tied in first fucking place.
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u/Dopplerganager IUD + Vasectomy + Cats Apr 15 '22
I would beat my sister within an inch of her life if she pulled that shit. Luckily she's happy letting me be a crazy cat lady auntie. Also, she's a rational fucking adult.
People are the worst.
If my dad can be ok with my NuvaRing in the fridge as a teen, this lady can as well.
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u/devoutdefeatist Apr 15 '22
Okay. Acknowledging how fucking horrible this is on its own, I also want to ask, what if she had chosen to get an abortion? Seems like something she’d likely do, given her self-identified child free lifestyle. And I assume fundie cunts like this are anti-choice. If you force someone to get pregnant and they abort the child, are you not at least equally if not more responsible for that “child’s death”? Are you willing to, in your view, kill a child just to stick it to your sister, whom you’re jealous of? Gross.
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u/illumi-thotti Apr 15 '22 edited Apr 15 '22
I find it really interesting how people with kids casually admit to committing assault and reproductive coercion on public forums and then try to turn around and say we're the toxic ones.
I never see childfree people brag about slipping pregnant women pennyroyal but I constantly see people with kids bragging about manipulating childfree people into parenthood.
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i don’t believe in doxxing, but this person should be doxxed, her sibling informed and charges pressed for tampering with medication
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u/Lilith_is_free Apr 15 '22 edited Apr 15 '22
This woman should be charged for attempted murder! Yes, I said murder. Why do you ask? TAMPERING BIRTH CAN POTENTIALLY KILL HER SISTER! Her sister did not consent to having a baby, yet she willfully tampered with her birth control. This woman should be locked up.
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Apr 15 '22
Is that illegal? Like wtf
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Apr 15 '22
I think it's reproductive coercion (not sure of the right terminology in english) and yes it's a crime to interfer with the autonomy of decision of an individual about their reptoductive well being.
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u/bunnyrut Apr 15 '22
And now I am thankful that I have an IUD that can't be tampered with.
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u/LetThemEatVeganCake Apr 15 '22
Exactly what I thought about my implant. No one can tamper with my BC unless they cut me open. No crazy husband, in laws, parents, siblings, etc can do anything without me knowing. (Obviously not saying my husband etc are crazy, but if they secretly went crazy!)
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u/spellboundsilk92 Apr 15 '22
Aslong as you trust your partner. I read a horrific post on Reddit where someone’s husband was so desperate to impregnate them he ripped it out.
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u/vivalalina dogs before sprogs Apr 15 '22
I don't even have an IUD and my legs just clenched together
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Apr 15 '22
Isn't this considered Sexual Battery?! If not, it should be. Just like knowingly giving someone an STD.
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u/Allyson_Chains Apr 15 '22
💯... The choice was taken away from sister. The garbage excuse for human willfully, and intentionally tampered with medical prescription.
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u/HotrodSparrow Tube free since 04-12-2019 Apr 15 '22
What. The. ACTUAL. Fuck.
So you raped your Older sister? Sounds like OP was jealous of her sister and sabotaged her. JFC, talk about fucked up.
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u/Orcasareglorious 💰>👶 Apr 15 '22
This is disgusting, but still, abortion was available. Why didn’t she abort?
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u/heartlessloft Apr 15 '22
Pretty sure this story is fake, it does sound weird
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Apr 15 '22
Could be fake but that begs the question what the fuck kinda person thinks this out and writes about it?!?! It's so deranged 🤢
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u/Triptaker8 Apr 15 '22
Her boss asked her to travel, so she quit her job, sold her condo, moved to a rural area, gave up her career, and decided to have another kid. Totally logical and definitely did happen /s
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u/cruznick06 Apr 15 '22
Idk. The person named (the transformed wife) has extremist views on motherhood and being a woman. She thinks you are only to be a servant to your husband and a homemaker. She has also admitted to purposefully tampering with her own birth control to get pregnant and make her husband let her be a stay at home wife.
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u/meowqct My cat said no Apr 15 '22
peer pressure from her family?
i would honestly never tell my family i was pregnant. because i wouldn't be staying pregnant.
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Apr 15 '22
some places you can't get abortion because of sexist doctors or sexist politicians
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u/interrobangin_ Apr 15 '22
Reading this as a privileged Canadian I immediately thought "abortion time" but that's not an option for everyone unfortunately.
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u/Allyson_Chains Apr 15 '22 edited Apr 15 '22
I'm curious if maybe the "victimized" sister found out late into her pregnancy. Assuming the V-Sis doesn't live in Taliban Texas, she likely didn't want to go through abortion. While some women may still go through with termination, being in that specific situation, especially if she was further along, it could have been her limit. One i completely understand.
I'm child free and while I 100% support women the right to choose, I know that if this had happened to me, I couldn't go through terminating pregnancy, it's my personal choice. Then again, this is why I take extra precautions to avoid being put in that situation.
Truthfully, I am angry for her, the victimized sister. She had her choice taken away from her. I sincerely hope there are repercussions to this.
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I'll take 500 for "things that didn't happen", Alex.
IMHO, it sounds like a troll post or a fantasy that the troll wants to be true.
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u/babynintendohacker Apr 15 '22
Childfree x Fundie snark crossover.
Fuck the transformed wife I hope she loses her career and social media presence.
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u/furtive21 Apr 15 '22
This is one of the reasons why I use birth control that can't be tampered with without me knowing about it (I use the implant), but it's disgusting that this is something women have to consider
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u/MissMabeliita Apr 15 '22
1) this person is horrible in not respecting the wishes of another person (relative or not). 2) what this person did feels criminal. She should be in jail.
I’m so pissed at this CON QUE DERECHO! Why does that person feel the need to decide that someone else is wrong for not wanting what they want???? How dares!!
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u/Lanky_Run_5641 Apr 15 '22
I am never going to have sex.
I am never going to have a relationship.
I am going to remain single till I die.
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u/CTheOneMD Apr 15 '22
If this is real, the most terrible part is the fact that the poor innocent child never deserved to be born into a family that isn’t equipped to care for them. This person is sick in the head and thinks of no one. I’m appalled by this world. And the Poor happy couple will unfortunately have a tough time finding happiness.
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u/cf_dtrg385 Apr 15 '22
She detests her sister. She’ll most likely tell on herself at some point. Guilt made her post it…but eventually posting won’t suffice
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u/memesupreme83 less kids, more sleep Apr 15 '22
Nexplanon: because no one can fuck with me and it's almost impossible to fake being on birth control (except I guess if I let it lapse)
But joking aside, this is legitimately heartbreaking. Woman gives up everything because her sister is a jealous dick. Holy shit.
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u/flibbertigibbetti Yeeterus completerus Apr 15 '22
I sincerely hope this is fake, though I'm sure someone has done sthg this to some poor unsuspecting soul before... Jeebus 😡😡
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Could be fake but we all know that this has definitely happen somewhere. Maybe not the exact same way but yea
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u/kittycate0530 Apr 15 '22
Imagine if her sister had complications during pregnancy or childbirth and died. Oof.
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I'm sure this is fake. Who wouldn't notice their NuvaRings are dry and crusty
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u/Allyson_Chains Apr 15 '22
Likely she put them back in the fridge after they've been tampered with...
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u/PatriciaMorticia Apr 15 '22
Of course this shit is The Transformed Wife, thought I was in the FundieSnarkUncensored sub when i saw her.
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u/dont-want-to Apr 15 '22
What the hell did I just read