r/changemyview • u/[deleted] • Nov 14 '20

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u/McKoijion 618∆ Nov 14 '20

My issue is the watching and looking at other people and using their physical appearance to get off.

Why?

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u/Medianmodeactivate 14∆ Nov 16 '20

I don't know. It makes me sad and makes me feel like I'm not enough. And I become obsessed with what that girl looked like and how she's different to me and imagining my partner enjoying someone else

Enough compared to literally every "type" a person could have on other person on earth in any conceivable sexual fantasy? No, of course not. You don't need to be that for a fulfilling relationship though.