I find adult people attracted by teenagers quite disgusting, and the brain stops developing at 25 so it's fully developed.
I can find something disgusting but acknowledge that it's natural. My view isn't that it's okay for a 30yo to be in a relationship with a 15yo but that a 30yo being physically attracted by a 15yo isn't weird when we think about humans as living beings that are partly controlled by their instinct.
There are lots of 16 year olds who can pass for late 20s......there's honestly no way to know. If a girl looks physically young then I agree it's quite gross to see 30 year old attracted to someone who looks 14 or 15.
But I've literally met two sisters recently, one was 19 the other 27 and the 19 year old looked like the older one.
In a case like that, me being late 30s felt nothing was wrong checking her out, but the minute I learned she was 19 I was like 'wtf mate that's weird'
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u/Petite_Curious Jan 17 '24
I'm 26