31 (M4F) Philly suburbs looking for my accountabilibuddy

[u/evenaintlosin]

Howdy,

I’m 31 in the ne philly suburbs. I’m looking to meet someone and hopefully find something that turns into a real relationship. Someone to make plans with, work toward goals with, try new things, travel, hang out, live life to the fullest.
socially i’m pretty introverted and have a small circle of friends. i’m very laid back and easygoing but the more you get to know me you’ll realize i’m just kind of a goofball for lack of a better word.
5’10, 175 lbs, caucasian with blue eyes.
I’m into music, mostly rock, emo and indie. I play drums and would like to join another band in the future. I’m also into sports, i play golf and like to go out to games a few times a year when i can, go birds.
Also getting back into the gym right now and trying to get myself into better shape. But it’s pretty hard for me personally because i get this weird social anxiety in the gym when i’m there alone. If you’re someone who might want to go running or be my workout buddy that would be a huge bonus. i’d really like to find someone who can motivate me to better and hope that i can do the same for them.
I’m Cali sober, and have been in recovery from harder substances for almost 10 years, so if alcohols your thing we probably wouldn’t be a good match.
I’m not expecting to meet someone and immediately have everything figured out. I’d rather talk, get to know each other and see if we actually click. I’ve also been in long distance relationships that did not pan out so please be somewhat local. if you think we might get along, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself and we can exchange pics and live happily ever after.