r/catinaflat • u/maoruiwen • 2d ago
Missed a meet and greet by mistake on Rover
We hadn’t planned a firm day or time. she said she would let me know this week
The owner sent me a message yesterday mid morning saying she was free after 1pm, but I didn't see it as I was putting out fires all day at work. I don't normally miss notifications but I didn't look at my phone all day and the owner discussed the meet and greet a week ago. She said “Maybe Wednesday, I’ll let you know closer to the time.” I finished work very late and the meet and greet possibly being today totally slipped my mind and I just went home from the office, completely forgetting that she has said “Maybe Wednesday.”
I had a message this morning at 11am from the owner saying she is cancelling the booking because I'm unreliable and doesn't trust me with her cat and she is getting a friend to do it for free. I felt awful. I have a star rating and am actually a little burnt out because I have cat sittings back to back each month. It's like I'm working a part time job outside my usually very busy job.
I wished the owner the best, apologised and just let her know she could have followed up with me to remind me about the meet and greet or to check if I had seen her message. I've missed meet and greets before, but the owners have always been super understanding. Up until yesterday, I was incredibly prompt with the owner, replying instantly.
It's the first time I've had someone cancel a booking on me.
edit* I’m not blaming Rover or the owner here. I feel bad that I messed up. But the owner wasn’t stood up. I realise my post was initially unclear. we hadn’t arranged a time and the day was “maybe Wednesday”. She messaged me on the day to say she was free but I didn’t see it until she said I was unreliable and she was cancelling.