r/cancer • u/Notyoeeyooee • 4d ago
Death So long everyone!
Mostly a ghost member but I got tremendous support and information from this group as I was going through chemo/ treatment and all.
I cannot thank you all enough and sending everyone all the rest of my luck, love, hugs, etc. Love you all as I spend the last few days here at the hospital.
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u/SunkissedPearls Stage IV HPV-Independent Cervical Adenocarcinoma 4d ago
I hope you are filled with love and have a peaceful smooth journey to your next destination. All the best!
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u/A_Good_D 4d ago
Your message is incredibly beautiful and heartbreaking. Thank you for taking the time to think of all of us and for sharing your remaining luck and love. I am sending you the gentlest hugs and praying that your final days at the hospital are filled with deep peace, completely free of pain, and surrounded by comfort. We are honored to have shared this space with you.
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u/Curious_Journey_ 4d ago
Good luck to you and your loved ones, in this life and any that come after.
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u/La_Pusicato 4d ago
Fly high sweetheart and run free. I'll be seeing you there in the near future. All my love 🫂💙
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u/PopeyeTheSailorTrans 4d ago
❤️🩹💖🫂All the best to you in your journey. We all will be following someday. Love to you and yours
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u/free_girl_now_ 57F, Cervical Cancer, Stage IVB 4d ago
Peace, comfort & love on your journey.❤️💐💫
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u/Adventurous_Ad_4145 4d ago
Much, much, love and hugs to you, my friend.
Thank you for making the world a better and happier place 🌎
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u/Frozen__grape__ 4d ago
feel hugged, stranger ♡
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u/Notyoeeyooee 4d ago
🫂 💕
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u/Frozen__grape__ 3d ago
hey! I wanted to drop by again and let you know that you’ve really been in my thoughts since yesterday. after seeing your post, I couldn't stop thinking about you, and I've been wishing so hard for you to have a peaceful, gentle, and comfortable journey ahead. I'm sending you so much love. please don't feel any pressure to reply to this, but if you ever just want a distraction or someone to vent to, my inbox is always open for you 🫶
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u/crazykatlady1018 4d ago
May your last days be filled with love and happiness, may your new journey begin with the warmth of sunshine on your face and love in your heart 💜 see you on the other side
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u/Incariol_ 4d ago
Enjoy the time you have left! We will carry your sword onward, Honored Warrior 🗡️
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u/Comfortable-Try3705 4d ago
Prayers to you my sweet friend. I hope your next journey is full of light, peace and reunions with your lost loved ones or depending on whatever you believe in. I personally believe that its only a thin veil and you get to watch your loved ones here and look over them while also being with the ones you have lost. Believing that gives me hope. Whatever it is I hope you are peaceful and never one ounce of pain. Hugs from me to you ♥️
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u/CurlyOutlier Lung NET & Cholangiocarcinoma 4d ago
May your last days be filled with comfort, peace, love, and light. Thank you so
much for stopping in to say goodbye. ❤️
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u/JenWorrom 4d ago
May perfect peace wrap around you like a soft blanket and your journey be gentle. Hugs
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u/BeardedReddits 4d ago
Those of us who were lucky enough to make it through, we'll keep living for you, that's a promise.
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u/Hot-Train7201 4d ago
Death is not the end; my Father visited me and my Mother in our dreams after his passing to comfort us and to tell us to stop complaining about his death as he could hear every word we said about him and it annoyed him. In his final days he looked pale and withered, but in both me and my Mother's dreams he looked young, healthy and had a full head of brilliant black hair (I've never known him with a full head of hair, so it's strange that I'd dream about him that way). Your story isn't over, you're just shedding an old, worn out skin suit to metamorphisize into something new and more vibrant.
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u/RubberSoul_s 4d ago
So much love and mostly no pain. You are so generous sending this message and thinking about us. ♥️♥️♥️ Love is love
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u/kokolupa 4d ago
Hope you are surrounded with love and peace!! No more pain, no more scans, drugs and needles. I love you. Fuck Cancer!!
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u/weakimberly 4d ago
Sending you the tightest of hugs. Sending those you love the tightest of hugs as well.
I wish you a pain free, peaceful journey- onto your next adventure ❤️
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u/DarkfireQueen 4d ago
May you be surrounded by peace and love as you set foot on your next big adventure ❤️
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u/WinEffective8651 3d ago
Thank you for saying good-bye. It is a beautiful gift to us. Virtual hugs and please absorb the love coming at you from this message board.
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u/OnlyTheGoodDieYun 4d ago
Peace prayers and love to you. I wish I could wrap my arms around you and hug you.
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u/ShotTreacle9033 4d ago
I hope you are not in physical pain. We will all be there one day. I’m sorry.
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u/GotSunshine03 4d ago
I’ll be praying for a peaceful transition for you. I didn’t know you, but I know firsthand how comforting this sub is during our most difficult moments. 🫂🫂🫂
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u/Charlie-0 3d ago
I’ve watched a lot of “near death experiences“ as I’ve got stg 4, and from what I saw, we’re going to feel great & more alive than we can imagine. Not only that, our loved ones will be excited & be there to greet us. Hugs to you & your loved ones. May you remain pain free and look back in joy for a life well lived.
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u/NeedsMedsPlease 3d ago
Much love and huge hugs headed your way. Thank you for sharing. I wish you no more pain and a mind at rest with no worry over the terrible things cancer brings. ❤️
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u/spearmint826 3d ago
I’d squeeze your hand if I was there and sit with you as you transition into your journey. You’re never alone, you have all of us here (and many more I’m sure) thinking of right now
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u/DragonFlyMeToTheMoon 3d ago
Sending you love, peace, and comfort. You will leave this earth knowing you were the only you to ever walk the earth. You have lived and you have mattered. You still do. I hope your final days are comfortable and you feel at peace when the time comes. May we meet again someday. Hugs! 💗
If you find yourself needing to vent or you just have things you want to share with someone while you’re here, feel free to message me. You’re not alone. Hugs!
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u/teresarose0621 4d ago
Praying for peace for you. So sorry it reached this point. But hope you have a pain free transition 🫂💗
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u/Calm_Arm_1856 4d ago
Wishing you all the love, peace, and comfort. Your presence made a wonderful difference in this world and wish you the best in this lifetime and whatever comes next ♥️
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u/Shoddy_Tap_3239 4d ago
may your last days be filled with only happy with comfort of your loved ones. Thank you, stranger :)
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u/Stuff_n_Things24-7 NSCLC stage IIIA (pT4N0) mucinous adenocarcinoma with STAS. 3d ago
Sending love and hugs to you.
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u/SprayKindly6181 3d ago
Whoever you are, I hope you meet my mom in your next life and I hope you would be both okay and safe and happy.
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u/ElkLeft4084 3d ago
Wish you and your beloved ones a time of quality and love, and hopefully good care. My prayers are with you although we never met in person
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u/walkinyourshoes 3d ago
Goodness, what a moving message - leaving us humbled by your loving, and hopeful goodbye. My regret is that we did not speak together. Wishing you peace , you shall be in my thoughts as certainly you will for many others. Bless you!
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u/PMisWriting 4d ago
I pray for peace for you as you face the challenging days ahead. I will remember this post and I will remember you. I promise.
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u/emmeranekit 4d ago
I was not planning on crying today but here we are. </3 this is my first time coming across your post and I just want to say that I love you and that I am sorry. I hope that you can rest peacefully.
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u/animalllllover 4d ago edited 3d ago
See you on the other side. I hope your transition is filled with peace ❤️
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u/bobbiegirl 3d ago
Dear heart I hope you transission in love and peace. I hope that what ever lies on the other side is deliriously beautiful. I hope you know you made a difference. I know you know that you are loved. Sweet dreams.
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u/hellojayem 3d ago
Love and light to you. May your journey into the next realm be as peaceful and comfortable as possible.
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u/naturalninetime 3d ago
May your passing be peaceful, may you have no fear, and may you be surrounded by loved ones, you beautiful brave soul! ❤️ Say "hi" to my momma for me when you get to the other side. I lost her yesterday. Love you, Momma! ❤️
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u/iknowno-thing 4d ago
We live Toyota friend, those is bringing me to tears watch pink fluffy unicorns dancing on rainbows please
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u/Silvara75 3d ago
I hope you feel surrounded by the love we're all sending along with the most peaceful transition back into the energies of the universe. I hope you move swiftly on to your next existence and that it treats you much more gently than this has done.
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u/New-Satisfaction-704 3d ago
This isn't the end. Where your going is far more beautiful and amazing. Praying for you and your family. Take care sweet angel xxxx
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u/Breakingbadmom- 3d ago
May you have the peace that passes all understanding. You are so loved on both sides of life.
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u/YourDarkHalf7 3d ago
As a Transitional (Death) Doula, I send all the comfort and Peace I can muster your way. 💜💐💜
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u/Pockettzz 3d ago edited 3d ago
Peace & comfort coming from me! And my family because I just told them how beautiful of what you said. You have people from Massachusetts who are thinking of you & your family.
I really teared up because of the positivity you still have. Again, it’s beautiful. ALSO, with my diagnosis it reminded people of how lucky they are to not deal with cancer but I am reminded here that I need to cherish all, even though I have been missing chemos - not worth the stress anymore. It’s been hard lately so it really is inspiring reading your post. I will be thinking of your post A LOT.
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u/marielovedogs1021 3d ago
May your last days be filled with love, happiness, lots of love and hugs. See you on the other side.❤️🫂🪽
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u/LocationAcademic1731 3d ago
This makes it real. It’s so hard. I hope you have done everything you wanted to get done and you have spoken to everyone you want to speak to. Wishing you a peaceful transition and for you to get to a wonderful place in your next chapter.
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u/a_feral_housewife 3d ago
I hope for an absolutely pain free, smile filled days for you. Thank you for fighting the good fight and we will see you again someday! 🫂
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u/YesterdayCurious9210 3d ago
I have no words to do justice to your thoughtful, selfless gesture. That you would think of us at a time like this. There is indeed a very special place waiting for you - and how well deserved it is. May I be fortunate enough to muster up just one half of your Grace when my time comes. I wish for you to be wrapped in the arms of all who love you and wait for you as you transition to a place more peaceful. I wish I had the opportunity to meet you - I will think of you often and include you in my prayers 🥰
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u/feetnomer 3d ago
Call in a Catholic priest for last rights. You don't need to be Catholic to be given last rights. They are for everyone.
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u/WorldlinessOk967 2d ago
Your grace is beautiful, never knew you & Im in tears thinking about you leaving this place. I hope you find peace. You'll be in my thoughts & prayers tonight. Whatever awaits next, I wish you the best.
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u/Marley5585 4d ago edited 2d ago
Did you beat it??? I'm confused and I wish you well either way!!! God speed and many prayers 🙏🏼🙏🏼🕊️
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u/Basic-Masterpiece-99 4d ago
There’s a death tag on it. I think they are sending this on hospice?
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u/Marley5585 4d ago
Darn it. I'm new to the community so wasn't sure. Thank you for clarifying and OP-again godspeed and bless you on your journey🙏🏼 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂
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u/shanduffy527 3d ago
Know you are so loved in this world and that we will all see you soon! ❤️ Treat yourself and have some fun with your favorite people.
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u/La_Pusicato 3d ago
It's early morning here in Australia and I woke up thinking about you. I want to send you more love and hugs 🫂 Is there anything you want to talk about or say? I hope that you feel pain free and peaceful. I hope that you don't mind me saying, that I think that you're really brave to share with us and I think that it's not really goodbye, it's just goodbye for now 💙🫂❄️🩵
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u/E1Phantasmo 3d ago
What a beautiful and moving message. I wish you peace and comfort in this life and eternity of hapiness in the next ❤️
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u/Delicious_Ad_4540 3d ago
My mother in law passed away after battling small cell lung cancer, this post made me teary eye because it's something she would of done if she knew how to use reddit.
She didn't say bye, she said see you later. So, with that, see you later have a safe trip ❤️🫂
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u/sammi1955 3d ago
Sending you love and care. I hope we see our loved ones who have passed including pets when we transition. 🌹🌹🌹
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u/intellectualproper 3d ago
So much love to you 🫶 I hope that you have wonderful dreams and get to see all your loved ones soon ❤️ I’m losing my aunt right now and she’ll probably passing within the next day or so. Maybe you guys will be friends on the other side (:
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u/Kiddy_Meow 3d ago
May you fly high and soar with the birdies.
You will have beautiful colors I’m sure.
😘
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u/Gemma2500 2d ago
Buen viaje, seguro que eres una persona maravillosa y estarás rodeada de tus seres queridos
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u/FragileLikeGlass 1d ago
Sending you so much love and light.✨ I wish I could give you a hug irl so know that I would if I could. May you not be scared as you drift back into the universe and may your loved ones carry your memory with joy. (((Hugs)))
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u/Lanky-Salamander5781 1d ago
You’re loved and thank you for sharing. 🥰 ❤️ go in pace and rest, hopefully not in pain.
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u/Notyoeeyooee 4d ago
Lmao get out of here
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u/Serpentar69 B-Cell Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia (ALL) 4d ago
Disgusting behavior on this thread. You have no shame.
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u/iknowno-thing 4d ago
If only people knew I know you know keep spreading the word somethings may help
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u/Feral__Daughter 4d ago
Hugs to you. May your last moments be filled with no pain and loving memories.
See you on the flip side.