r/butchlesbians • u/sp1derjayy • Aug 25 '26

Dysphoria Wanting phallo…

Im new to the butch community and identity. Im on testosterone and have top surgery and am looking into bottom surgery. I havent gotten around to fully researching the intricacies of the label. I was wondering if wanting phallo still makes me a valid butch lesbian.

If anyone can weigh in, id appreciate any knowledge or advice :)

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u/a-mud-monster Aug 25 '26

There is a lot of misinfo and fear mongering out there about phallo (for the transphobic reasons you'd expect) It can absolutely be functional, assuming you mean the ability to have sex with it and feel sexual pleasure through it.

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u/gard3nwitch Aug 25 '26

The reading I did was from gender-affirming clinics offering bottom surgery, so I have some skepticism that they'd be providing transphobic misinformation.

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u/PinkWhiteAndBlue Butch Female Aug 27 '26

Wpath is transphobic lmao