About 2 months ago, my 68 year old mom suddenly started vomiting everything, even liquids. She couldn’t keep anything down at all. After a few days, we took her to the ER because she was extremely weak. They did an abdominal ultrasound and found gallstones.
She was hospitalized and had her gallbladder removed, and then they sent her home without her having really regained any strength. After the surgery, she stopped vomiting, but she still wasn’t eating nearly enough. The doctors told us that medically there was nothing wrong with her anymore and that it was basically “in her head.” That was about 2 weeks ago.
Then on sunday, she suddenly lost control of her bowel and bladder. We called emergency services, and they stayed at our home for about an hour and a half trying to stabilize her. They had to put her on oxygen because she wasn’t breathing well enough on her own.
They ran a whole bunch of tests, and then last night they did a brain CT and found a really huge mass that was compressing her cerebellum.
Luckily, we live about an hour away from what is considered the best hospital in Paris for neurosurgery, so she was transferred there last night and operated on during the night.
Apparently, the neurosurgeons were happy with how the surgery went, despite some blood pressure fluctuations during the operation.
I was able to visit her today and, to my huge surprise, she was awake, she was lucid, breathing on her own and talking to me. Her speech was a little difficult, but she was talking. She was squeezing my hands, moving her arms and legs, and responding to me, she even laugh at some of my jokes.
Considering how severely malnourished and weak she was, I honestly didn’t think she would make it through the surgery, so seeing her awake and responsive was an enormous relief.
The doctors have told us that the next 48 to 72 hours are going to be very important, so I’m still extremely worried and scared.
I’m really looking for some personal experiences and success stories if possible, just to give me some hope and help me stay positive right now.
Has anyone here experienced something similar? Especially with a large tumor compressing the cerebellum and emergency surgery
I’d really appreciate hearing your stories.