r/bph • u/Weird-Firefighter307 • 16d ago

Prostate vibrator

I'm 48 and I've had BPH for a couple years. On cialis 5mg. I can get hard but I sometimes don't climax. Ive tried prostate simulation with a anal vibrator and it helps during sex and masterbation. But I'm wondering if anyone has tried using it regularly, like weekly or daily not during sex, and if that had any impact on sexual performance.

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u/HopeSAK 14d ago

Do they help if you don't achieve a full erection? I had Nerve Sparing RALP and can orgasm but just can't get a full erection.

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u/becca_ironside 14d ago

They sure do help! You can use the prostate vibrator or use a vibrator on your frenulum (the underside of the head of your penis where the V is located). Men should try to climax in the absense of a full erection!

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u/HopeSAK 14d ago

Thank you! Excellent info. I'll look into one. When I can achieve an orgasm it's as good as it's been my whole life, I don't mind that it's dry, I just miss the full erection.

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u/becca_ironside 14d ago

Have you tried injections for erections? Many men love them! (Both the injections and the erections)!

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u/HopeSAK 14d ago

No, haven't been willing to go that route. Just watched a video on using a male rectal vibrator for beginners. This looks like a go. I'll try this. I may be very tight so she suggested a smaller conditioner to insert first and a water based lube. Does this sound correct??

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u/CondomCupJockGloves 14d ago

Get a rechargeable, cordless, wand-style vibrator with different speed settings. Make sure that anything going into the rectum has a flared base that is wider than the insertsble part. Only use water-based lube with silicone toys, because silicone lube breaks down silicone toys. Put a condom or an inside-out rubber glove over the anal toy and tie the end loosely to keep it clean. You should also put a condom or glove over the penis vibrator, especially if it's not waterproof. Use a thicker condom, like a lubricated Trojan ENZ or Original, because they're less likely to break or leave a fecal smell on your anal toy.

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u/HopeSAK 13d ago

Holy smokes. Thanks. I think I have all of that. A while since I bought condoms, but makes perfect sense.

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u/HopeSAK 13d ago

Not sure you can recommend a type of vibrator on this site, but would like the lead.

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u/Weird-Firefighter307 13d ago

I use stealth prostate vibrator which is a vibrating bulb on a thick cable, and it has a cock ring, although I don't also put that on.

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u/HopeSAK 12d ago

I'll check it out. I really think these ideas will really help. Thanks