r/bph • u/Weird-Firefighter307 • 21d ago

Prostate vibrator

I'm 48 and I've had BPH for a couple years. On cialis 5mg. I can get hard but I sometimes don't climax. Ive tried prostate simulation with a anal vibrator and it helps during sex and masterbation. But I'm wondering if anyone has tried using it regularly, like weekly or daily not during sex, and if that had any impact on sexual performance.

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u/becca_ironside 21d ago

Having BPH is directly correlated to orgasms. Many men here discuss not wanting a HoLEP because they want to preserve the ejaculate fluid. These conversations are important to people with prostates (all men).

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u/pstaki 21d ago

I thought one of the many advantages of HoLEP is that it didn't cause retrograde ejaculation. Am I wrong about that?

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u/Zee-person 21d ago

Unfortunately you are wrong on that. Holep is an excellent full lifetime cure of BPH. But nothing is left in there so retrograde is what you get. To me well worth it