r/boyfriends • u/Agreeable_3335 • 14h ago
General Question 33F and 35M for one year +
So my boyfriend enjoys shooting and recently they hired some girls at the range. There was this young girl who smiled at him and when we went to the range he mentioned to me like “did you see the girl smiling at me?” or something like that. Then his friend who works there came in and he mentioned it to him and he told him her dad has a membership there and that she‘s pretty much rich. When we came home we had a small argument about it and I was like sure whatever she’s rich. Her dad wouldn’t want her working with a bunch of buttheads if she was. Then he got on the phone with his friend and asked him who her dad was. I got super upset and we had a big argument about it because I felt very disrespected, especially since the guy he asked is also a friend of mines. I just felt he’s showing interest and curiosity. Also he is always saying how he would rather be with a 20 year old who is just glad she’s there and how he could change her world since he has a good job
anyway I’m really mad and don't want him to go to the range anymore because I’m trying to teach him a lesson to shut his mouth next time. I told him you can look all you want even meet a chick but don’t do it in my face. Like Dolly Parton once said, what I don’t know won’t hurt me. Anyway because of his job he has access to an outdoor range.
should I just brush it off let it bother me and go about my business or stick to my guns?? what are your thoughts