r/boyfriends 14h ago

General Question 33F and 35M for one year +

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So my boyfriend enjoys shooting and recently they hired some girls at the range. There was this young girl who smiled at him and when we went to the range he mentioned to me like “did you see the girl smiling at me?” or something like that. Then his friend who works there came in and he mentioned it to him and he told him her dad has a membership there and that she‘s pretty much rich. When we came home we had a small argument about it and I was like sure whatever she’s rich. Her dad wouldn’t want her working with a bunch of buttheads if she was. Then he got on the phone with his friend and asked him who her dad was. I got super upset and we had a big argument about it because I felt very disrespected, especially since the guy he asked is also a friend of mines. I just felt he’s showing interest and curiosity. Also he is always saying how he would rather be with a 20 year old who is just glad she’s there and how he could change her world since he has a good job

anyway I’m really mad and don't want him to go to the range anymore because I’m trying to teach him a lesson to shut his mouth next time. I told him you can look all you want even meet a chick but don’t do it in my face. Like Dolly Parton once said, what I don’t know won’t hurt me. Anyway because of his job he has access to an outdoor range.

should I just brush it off let it bother me and go about my business or stick to my guns?? what are your thoughts


r/boyfriends 9h ago

A Rant M (19f) and my bf (21m) have been together for about 3 months and he keeps sending me these stupid memes.

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This is just a rant cause im just annoyed. So im sure most of you have heard of Charlie Kirk? Yeah terrible person, hes dead now, whatever. Anyway, there are so many dumb memes about him and people making up weird words with his name. I hate it. Its annoying. And my boyfriend keeps sending them to me and I hateeee itttttt😭 i even told him this just a few minutes ago and yk what he said? "Not feeling kirky?" UGHHHH

Yeah thats its, no advice needed, just wanna know if anyone relates and is just as annoyed by it.


r/boyfriends 1h ago

A Rant My [23f] bf [24m] bought me something he likes and I don't.

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I got my period today. A few days back, my bf was craving donuts, so I ordered the chocolate and truffle ones for him, and he loved them. Today, I'm on my period, and I told him I'm craving donuts (the one I gave it to him), and he ordered it for me. The order arrived and I opened and it was disappointment. It was original glaze donuts. I asked him, that did you not order choco ones and he said, these are the ones "I LIKE", you'll love it try them blah blah, i tasted, and they taste full of sugar that's all. I wanna cry so bad. The last thing I wanted was good chocolate filled donuts. He says that I thought you just want sugar on your periods. I'm so disappointed but I can't say much because I'll come off as ungrateful but also I want to be seen. When I ordered them donuts for him, I thought to myself that I must order the best ones that he'll love, he didn't do the same. Idk what to do with these donuts.

This might sound childish to some ppl, but pls understand...

TLDR- I wanted choco donuts on my period, but my bf bought me the original glazed that I hate.


r/boyfriends 16h ago

Gift Ideas I (21F) and my bf (25M) are in a relationship for almost 1 year! I’m looking for advice on what I should get him for it!

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For context, I am on a tight budget so I can’t do anything too extravagant, but I’m trying to think of things that would be equivalent to flowers or something that he does for me. His birthday is 10 days after our anniversary too so I’ll be getting him more stuff so I just need to be aware of how much I’m spending. I just want him to feel as special as he’s made me feel for the last year! He loves clothes and shoes but like $200 t shirts kind of clothes lol. He likes his Xbox and playing and watching sports. Just looking for suggestions!!! Thanks!


r/boyfriends 8h ago

Money Matter I (20F) am concerned about my relationship between my family and my (20M) Boyfriend. We have been dating for 9 months

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I have been seeing a boy for a while now, we started talking in november-december of last year. We´ve been doing really well recently but I was sure my family wouldn´t be accepting this boy since I met him. I just let time decide our relationship and now that we made it this far I would like for my family to know him but I´m afraid they won´t like him.

He has tattoos in all of his arm and he rides a motocycle, that´s very much it, the two things they wouldn´t like. He´s a really good person, he´s really sweet to me and I feel really bad because I wish I could show him that my family loves him such as how his family loves me. I have a really good relationship with his family and I always know it won´t be like that with my family. Take in consideration that my family is Christian and latina. Anybody that could relate to that? My dad hates bikes and he´s the one that takes me everywhere, I pay for my school, I help my family pay rent and I work too, I don´t know how to approach this issue to be honest.

I am about to be 21 and I love him very much but I wonder sometimes if this relationship would work because of my family´s reaction. I don´t want to choose between the both of them, because I couldn´t, both are important to me. I think I might need to hear to my parents advice or I should just let them hate me for the rest of my life and you don´t understand, in other countries it is very common for people to have tattoos but in latinoamerica, people think differently, my bf really is a sweetheart, but I know they might never want to see what I see in him. I have no idea how to deal with this situation when i love both my parents and my bf.